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im 20 and he's 21 our birthdays are both in aug though[/b]
YAY FOR LEOs!!!! My b-day is august 1st!!
As for advice,...I dunno...I'm full of opinions, but this one really stumps me. Is there ANY way at all, that you could find a similar job with similar pay and benefits closer to where he is? If so, it may help a little. However, I would NOT take any new job closer to him unless there was some sort of guarantee that he'd be happy about giving the relationship another shot. As for him denying paternity...well, there's only one thing you can do about that...When the baby's born, take a paternity test. It's the only way to get him to drop the whole "it's not mine!!" crap. I hope for your sake he is the dad, because I know how much you love him and it would be better than any of the other ppl you were with.
To tell you the truth, it sounds like he's scared to get back together with you because he doesn't want to get hurt and have you leave again. I say, take this very slowly, step by step...and chin up! No guy is ever worth not eating over!! For heaven's sake! You're preggers! Take advantage of the guilt-free eating and splurging!! Yay for hotdogs with mustard and onions and a BIG neverending glass of cold 2% milk!!! Uh, yeah,...or whatever it is that YOU'RE craving! Gotta go, I'm hungry!!!