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Hi okay...I'm totally new and figured I'd go to a safe, secure message board with lovely ladies more experienced than me!
I am a virgin, I have never had vaginal or anal sex, yet I have engaged in everything up to that on occasion, but rarely. My periods are insanely irregular and nearly impossible to track so I tend to irregularly track them (shame on me, I know!) I'm not on birth control...etc...I can't remember my last period...probably late June or early/mid July. I still have not gotten a period yet as of now, August 19. I had an encounter the first week of August...but no sex, no ejaculation, etc although said parts may have been near each other at points? I have also been under an enormous amount of stress...my eating, physical, and just daily routines (waking/going to bed) have not only changed drastically over the recent weeks, but in particular this past week.
I do not feel any typical symptoms. I am energetic, in shape, nothing is bloated, swollen, or darker (minus maybe some recent bread I ate...hehe) I am peeing a lot...but I am also drinking a lot that my pee is super clear and I just feel very release down there!
Suggestions on what I should do? It's awful because half the time I know I don't have to worry about anything...and the other half I worry if a little pre-fluid got near me....it could happen, you know? And then I get emotional about it.
Needless to say, I will be much safer next time and never put myself in jeopardy again because I want kids later in life, just not now.
I'm thinking going to a doctor/health center would be the smartest thing now? Not only could they test me in case, but they could also discuss my irregularity. Did I...skip a period? That's never happened before and I'm 21....oy. Thank you for letting me talk this out aloud. Any wisdom/ease/caution is appreciated. Thank you.