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i am pregnant. according to my first us at 9 weeks i am due dec 25th. i had a 14 week us that said i am due dec 20 and my 21 week said dec 25th again.
i was with someone other than my bf around the time i could have gotten pregnant. since i know exactly the day i was with him, the due date would have been jan 11.
i know the only way to tell for sure is paternity testing, but is it almost safe to say it is my bfs? ive heard of ultrasounds being a week or so off but 17-20 days seems like a lot. i never kept track of my cycles or any of that either.
i even told my ob that i thought i ovulated around the time i was with the other guy. (but i didn't say anything about there being a paternity issue) and she said i was further along and i am probably just unsure of my dates.
I am sorry you are in this situation, I know that is EXTREMELY stressful. As the other poster asked, does your boyfriend have any idea there could be a paternity issue, or that you even slept with another man? I would be open about this, so if it does end up being the other mans, it doesn't come as a huge shock. In the world of fertility and pregnancy nothing is every 100%, so I would be weary of that. Are you planning to find out for sure after the baby is born?