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December 9th, 2009, 01:43 PM
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Hi everyone Im alicia 26 and Me and my bf just found out im 6 wks preggo and when I told him he freaked out and said he wants me to get an abortion ... I told him I was keeping the baby and he is pissed Im not sure if he will be apart of the babys life or not He does have a son already and is a great dad to his son but says he doesnt want more kids right now so I guess ill be doing this alone ..He told me if i keep the baby he will hate me and he said he doesnt want and child of his being raised alone by me and my family .. he is almost 30 and he needs to grow up and think about how he should have thought of that before he decided he didnt want to use protection LOL... I could care less if he wants to be there or not but I hope he will step up and be a great dad to this baby as well but im not holding my breath this baby is a blessing and he has pretty much made me choose him or the baby and i chose the minute i found out i was pregnant and its the baby
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December 9th, 2009, 09:47 PM
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hang in there mommie, things will probably settle down after a bit. but if he doesn't come around, well it's his loss! join a DDC and get hooked up with people that will support you through this time. will your family back you up? i know, from very personal experience, that its a tough road doing it alone, but you can do it. bless you as you enter this journey. your baby is soooo worth every single struggle.
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December 10th, 2009, 03:50 AM
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Hi Alicia!! sorry your BF is being such an immature butt head, seriously he needs to grow up alot!!! Hopefully he will come to his senses and be a good father to his child! If not you are a very strong and amazing women and i know you will be a great Mom!!
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December 10th, 2009, 12:57 PM
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Hi Alicia! Sorry your boyfriends being so dumb..hopefully he'll come around. I know what your going thru though, I'm 5 weeks pregnant with my first and I'm going to be taking care of the baby by myself. The baby's dad has 2 kids and a girlfriend. So he wont be able to be around a lot. I know we can get through this, stay strong, and congratulations on your baby !!
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