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October 19th, 2011, 03:18 PM
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We were dating, and he broke up with me because he suspected I was pregnant.
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November 18th, 2011, 11:45 PM
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January 12th, 2012, 06:55 AM
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Long term relationship. It was a surprise but no big deal really, we are more than stable enough (financially and emotionally) to handle a baby.
His parents want us to get married (as they have for the past several years) but I think one thing at a time is ok, and weddings require a lot of energy and money and I'm kind of low on the energy front at the moment.
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January 15th, 2012, 02:05 PM
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I am divorced and had been told I couldn't have children. I've been with my boyfriend (the father) for about 6 months and it was quite a surprise. But God gives us miracles and I couldn't be happier. It's a little stressful because I'm not sure what the future holds quite yet. But DBF is wonderful and I think marriage is on the menu in the future. I'm very blessed.
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 Due August 25th With Our Little Miracle
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January 22nd, 2012, 08:20 PM
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Another complicated situation. We've been dating for 4 years but it is not healthy at all. Although we haven't "officially" broken up the relationship is hanging by a thread. This is a complete surprise!! I am 41 and he is 44. He's got 4 other kids. I have 1 who will be 15 in a few days. Everything happens for a reason. I'm pretty sure I am going to be in this alone but I'm ok with that.
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February 9th, 2012, 04:09 AM
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Dating and living together, still are.
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March 11th, 2012, 05:05 PM
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both times i was dating the father. the first tried to throw me down a flight of stairs to make me miscarry, the father of my daughter proposed the day i told him, we are now married,have a little girl,and he has adopted my son. so two very different experiences
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March 12th, 2012, 08:19 PM
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March 12th, 2012, 11:46 PM
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I just found i was pregnant. By a guy i had a rebound with. after my ex and i tried for 2 years to have a baby now its like what to i do now cause i dnt even know the guy that well. wow that made me sound really bad 
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March 14th, 2012, 11:21 PM
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April 18th, 2012, 12:14 AM
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June 14th, 2012, 09:01 PM
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June 15th, 2012, 04:31 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Mamajamie
I just found i was pregnant. By a guy i had a rebound with. after my ex and i tried for 2 years to have a baby now its like what to i do now cause i dnt even know the guy that well. wow that made me sound really bad |
I feel your pain, mama! Not quite the same story, but I'm still in the process of divorcing my ex and now pregnant from a guy who isn't going to be around. In telling my family and friends I'm just going to keep reminding them and myself that it's not the baby's fault the situation is messed up, that they can feel however they'd like about me as long as they love him/her.
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June 17th, 2012, 12:59 AM
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With kyler,i have been with the father for 6 years. We weren't trying or preventing,it just happened. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me! 
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June 22nd, 2012, 04:29 PM
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dating for #1. This time around we are engaged. (Same relationship)
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June 27th, 2012, 09:03 PM
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1st one (victim of rape)
2nd one (stupid single teenager  with someone I had no business with)
3rd one (well, hopefully, there is no third to worry about but I'm single)  
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June 29th, 2012, 03:09 AM
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We were dating
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July 14th, 2012, 11:20 PM
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I was dating this guy for 3weeks, we had sex 2 times (with a condom) I found out he had a drug problem and immediatly broke up with him. Then 6weeks later I found out I was preg. When I told him he insisted I get an abortion because his new gf (also a druggie come to find out) wouldnt like me having his baby. I asked him how this could possibly have happened when I KNOW I put a condom on him. He insists we had sex in the middle of the night without a condom. I have NO memory of this and def wouldnt have let it happen knowingly without a condom. How I didnt feel it at all I dont know. I never would have chose this guy as a dad and really dont want him around this child nor does he want to be as of now. Not only does he have a drug problem but I found out he spent 17yrs in prison for armed robbery. I wish I wouldnt have told him because now Im worried he may try to step into the picture at some point. I want this baby to have a real father in his life if any not a man like that.
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