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I am a little over 7 weeks pregnant. This is my third, and completely a shock. I was done having kids after my second was born. I divorced my childrens dad about 5 years ago...then 2 years ago I met someone else. I made it clear to him that I wanted no more children, despite the fact that he has none. Well, we went on vacation a couple months ago, and slipped up. So now im pregnant, and very unhappy about it. I dont know if my hormones are going crazy, but suddenly I dont feel like I love him anymore. He drives me crazy, I avoid going home after work because I dont want to see him, I feel hatred toward him. The problem is hes a great guy and didnt do anything wrong. I have gone as far as to pack me and my kids up to stay with my mom for a while. Every single thing he does annoys me to the point I want to hit him. This morning I actually threw a glass of water at him. And another thing, I cannot get excited about this baby no matter how hard I try. I really dont want any more kids. I dont agree with abortion and adoption is out of the question. I know there's nothing I can do, but what do I do? I know pregnancy hormones are normal, but has anyone else gone to these crazy extremes? Hes the only person I feel this way toward. Work is fine, my relationship with my friends and family are fine, its just him!
I think that you are blaming him because he is the father and you unconsciously blame him for getting you pregnant. I am struggling with trying to get excited but the addition feels surreal. I just wanted my 4 and two down the road, but plans change!