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well my little sister came over and asked to use my hair shampoo. I told her she could and she went in our bathroom, which I don't know why she didn't ask because its in Robert and I's room and we keep personal things in there and have two bathrooms, but under the sink was the pregnancy test from the posts. She actually put it in her coat and ran it to my mom's house.
My mom comes over fuming that I didn't tell her; she is my best friend. I seriously have like 3 close friends. When she calms down she askes me when the baby is due, I told her we aren't sure just yet if we are keeping it; don't want to put pressure on Rob through my mom, and she goes off again. Yelling at how we could even think of aborting, let her adopt the baby, how the baby didn't ask to be here, etc.
We haven't talked since then and I am not sure what to say to her. I am sure we are, but there is that doubt that something will happen and we won't make the March 20th deadline we set up to have things taken care of etc.
That's hard when family gets involved, if your mom is your best friend hopefully shortly she'll be able to get over her emotions see things from your perspective and be there to stand by you emotionally regardless of what you decide. On the positive side your mom is now able to be there to talk to (if she cools off) and can support you if you go forward with the pregnancy and give you a much needed break
(((HUGS))) I usually don't tell people about my pregnancy right off the bat. I am sorry your mom has to know before you are ready to know what you are going to do. I hope you can sort through this. And I agree with Kristina, I think it is good that your mom will support you if you keep the pregnancy. A lot of people have the opposite situation where they are being pressured in the other direction.