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ha. FOB and I had had a big argument before he went back to Iraq, when I found out i was preggo i told him we needed to talk and asked him to call me. He thought i wanted to talk about the fight and refused to talk to me, so i told him on facebook im because i had no other way to tell him.
I just told him I wanted to talk to him about something but I needed to do it in person. When he came over I avoided it for a good half hour. Then he was about to take a nap and I just blurted it out! He thought I was joking....I said this is not something I would joke around about. anyway he needed time to process it - BF and I have a shakey relationship but he has come to terms with it. I just hope it stays OK.
I took the test at a grocery store lol. I wasn't living with my FOB at the time, but I went over to his place often - so I went over, just came out & told him, & he made me call my mom. They didn't really believe me so she brought another test over & I took it - positive, obviously lol.
beckii ... momma to my beautiful princess Mikayla Lynn 01.18.06
He bought the tests actually. It was right after a big fight and i was planning on leaving town. I told him i was late and just wanted to make sure it was nothing before i left. He was hovering right over me as i took it and a BFP showed up 5 secs later. lol. Not such a happy story but we are still together and making it work because of baby.
meh whatever... i'm learning i'm way better off with out him. I have no expectations of him as a father. Though i hope he does make the effort for my son. if not my son and i will at least get a check from him every month lol