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Hey ladies. I just got a BFP a few hours ago and I am in shock. DH and I were TTA because of some really rough things going on in our marriage and I had a weird feeling so I tested today and sure enough I am pregnant. I am freaking out and am scared. Dh deployed last week so I haven't been able to talk to him to tell him yet, but I am scared of what he is going to say. I hope he isn't too upset with me, like I am thinking he will be. But I don't know what to do, say or think. God am I scared.
Sorry i didn't say welcome sooner... i have been feeling sick lately. Hitting that third trimester :/
Anywho, congrats on your bfp I know it's still probably a shock to you like it was to me when i found out. I'm sure that shocked and scared feeling will soon turn into complete excitement. Have you talked to your DH about it yet? I wouldn't worry too much about his initial reaction. I think with any unplanned pregnancy, it takes some time to get used to the idea. And he may really surprise you with a totally different reaction to the news than you were expecting.
Be sure to update us and let us know how breaking the news went! Wishing you a H&H 9 months
Congrats, & welcome I'm not sure why your DH would be mad at YOU, it takes two to make a baby, so hopefully he'll realize that & be understanding. Any pregnancy is scary at first, given some time things will get better
beckii ... momma to my beautiful princess Mikayla Lynn 01.18.06
I'm sorry you are finding yourself here on Unplanned Pregnancy. Hopefully, your DH will be shocked but supportive. If not, you and him have some time during his deployment to let things sink in. Good Luck and please KUP!