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this is my first one and off/on again bf (gosh I need to come up with another name for him....whats allowed here? lmbo)....anyway...called to ask me if I would reconsider and abort. I am so disgusted with him. I really am. I am sad too. He doesn't get it. It just broke my heart. I am praying they do an U/S so that I can at least show him a picture of the baby. :/
it's a girl!
Last edited by ohbaby37; February 4th, 2011 at 05:11 PM.
i had my u/s! i could see baby moving its mouth. seen fingers. it was AWESOME! doc is guessing a girl. i am excited. as for SH: guess what that means, lol s.it head: he called again and JUST wanted to know if the doc thought i could safely abort. :/ i am so irritated w/ him. he did not care to hear anything else and i ended up hanging up on him. so we are now not speaking. ugh.
oh and i do not have a scanner @ home. so i will scan it mon. at work and post it. =)
I pretty much did. but he has been hopping on the internet finding places about abortion and now suggested new york as an option. thats when i hung up on him. oh well. he can either come around or move the hell on. i am over him.
I thought when he told me he googled abortion clinics with blood banks and I need to do the same because there are a lot of them that was the worse. Haven't heard anything from him about going out of state. He may be over it at this point. I think when he realizes you are NOT getting an abortion no matter what he will give up and accept the pregnancy.
Their desperation amazes me. This is our lives here. It's not like going to NY to buy a pair of shoes at a new store or googling to find some new cafe somewhere. Its not that simple.
As for the baby's father, i'm sorry he is still being a jerk If he really didn't want to have anymore kids, he could of had a vasectomy. He is being very immature and doesn't want to own up to his responsibility.
Just focus on taking care of yourself and the LO in your belly. I still hope he comes around, but if he doesn't, he still can't escape his responsibility. It took 2 people to create this life and he is going to have to help take care of the baby one way or another.
Girl don't listen to your boyfriend. He is trying to get out of a tough situation by removing his responsibility to you and a baby. My advice is to call it quits with him. If he was ready to commit to you, he'd commit to your baby girl. Don't let him push you into doing something that you would regret!! He needs to man up and take responsibility for the life both of you created together.
He's obviously a loser...he can research all he wants...but if YOU do not want to abort your baby (which you don't) then he really has no say. He helped you MAKE the baby, so now it's time for him to man up and not try to force you to take the "easy way out" (for him)... Good luck to you, and do what YOU want. He'll get his later on. karma is a b*tch!
Mom to many
1 Girl 2011 and 1 Boy 2013. Their family is COMPLETE!
doctor/ob can't and wont abort at this point so i don't know what he is looking up or if he is just telling you this. But he doesn't sound like he want's to be a part of this so i would say bye bye... And grats on the little girl!! there are such a joy