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Hello everyone. I am unexpectedly pregnant and I am happy and excited but do have this nagging, in the back of my head type issue that I wanted to get opinions on.
I was single and had sex Feb 8 with someone. It was just once and it had been a long time before that since I had been with anyone.
3 days later on Feb 11 I had some sort of period because I wrote down on a calender I had started. I can't really recall how long or any details about that period. I just remember having to change underwear so I know there was flow.
Feb 19 I met and slept with the guy who is now my boyfriend.
I took a home pregnancy test the week of Mar 11- neg.....then again the week of Mar 24- neg
Besides the missed period during that time I was having some breast tenderness.
I tested again Apr 2nd and got a postive.
I had an ultrasound today that says the baby measures at 9 weeks.
What do you think the chances are this could be the other guys baby instead of my boyfriends?
My boyfriend is thrilled about this baby and I don't want to tell him anything that takes away from that if there is no need to.
There is no chance that it is the other man's sperm, it has to be your boyfriends. (Esp if your last period was Feb 11th, then that means whatever sperm that was in you that might of fertilized that months egg was destroyed due to AF) Nine weeks from today was Feb 24th, was probably sometime during your last period/ovulation. (Doctors measure the babys growth starting by once the new egg comes, right after your period, since it is growing then too, or right at ovulation) Feb 19th is not the day you concieved, but somewhere between then and April 2nd you did. (Most likely around ovulation) As long as during this time you were only having sex with your boyfriend, you are OK to go!