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Ok, I am in major need of some help. I dont know what to do, all I know is I cannot allow my baby to deal with my bodys stress for the rest of my pregnancy. Ive been with my fiance for awhile now. Byfar the best man I have ever met, hes there for me and my son. Hes sweet, caring, romantic, thoughtful, smart, responsible...the list can go on and on. Last month, I made a mistake that has been killing me inside. I was pretty much pressured into doing something I didnt want to do. Horrible =( and I hate myself for it. That was on Oct 31. I just found out a few days ago that I am about five weeks pregnant. Didnt think at first that I had anything to worry about, but then I remembered the mistake I made and my joy went instantly to heartache and fear. Im praying to god that this child is my fiance's baby. We have been trying non stop for the past three months to get pregnant and it hasnt been happening. I thought because I ahd gotten off the shot in Feb 2011 and it was just taking a long time to totally leave my system. Well now I am pregnant. When I made that mistake, protection was used and it was one time. But supposively my ovualtion day was nov 1, and im just really scared the condom broke and its not the right guys baby. What are my choices, what can I do? I cannot live nine months worried and scared to death my whole life is gonna come crashing down. I cannot loose what I have due to one stupid mistake that will never ever happen again. I cannot believe i am even going through this...please help.....
I am so sorry you're going through this. I think you have to tell your fiance the truth. There's no way you'll be able to handle the stress and then to keep it a secret your whole life would be horrible! Tell him and hopefully he'll forgive you. Good luck with whatever you decide hun.
It is most likely your fiancee's baby and you are just worried over the guilt. Letting him know you cheated as might possibly be pregnant is not going to go over to well for any man to hear, but if it is something that really morally bothers you, then do what you feel is right. The fact that you even consider telling him the truth is likely what you feel is the right answer
The guy i made the mistake with, claims he checked it and everything was still inside of it.....the select few ppl that i have told have all told me to relax that the odds are on my side and that its really just the guilt getting to me....but like I keep envisioning these horrible scenarios. Everyone around me does this stuff all the time care free, i make the mistake one time and im going through this...its eating at me inside..never again will i do that!!!!! it needs to be my fiancees child!!!!!!!!!