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With my son (1st child) was planned so that was easy with my daughter (2nd child) unplanned I was on depo when I got pg with her and it took a couple of weeks but it was easy because dh was wanting another baby and was really excited so he made me excited. This baby girl (3rd child) dh and I had seperated 2 weeks before I found out I was pg and he still isn't into this pregnancy like with the others. I have come to terms with the fact that I am pg but am still not really "excited" or doing the things I did when I was pg with the other 2. I think it's because now I am not living with my husband me and the kids live at my moms and I am on bedrest and just have way to much stress for a non- pregnant person much less one that is pregnant and high risk.
My first thought with #2 my 1st daughter was I hope my dh doesn't kill me or think I tried to get pg I mean I was on the depo shot.
With this one it was I hope he doesn't say it's not his kid (which is what he did) But we had gotten back together for 6 weeks and then when we split up 2 weeks later I find out I'm 7 weeks pg so yep he's the daddy sometimes I wish he wasn't but he is.
How long did it take you to come to terms to the fact that you had gotten pregnant? It just took a couple of weeks for the shock to wear off. A big part for me was coming to JM. I could talk to other women and it helped me to realize that I wasn't alone and that even though my baby wasn't planned I could still be excited and prepared for her arrival.
What were some of your initial thoughts and reactions? I was scared and wanted an abortion right away but DH's excitement grew on me and the ladies here really helped to make the real decision. I'm so happy that I went though with it now.