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February 8th, 2012, 10:48 AM
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Hi everyone, I'm Ashley a divorced mom of 2, with a great boyfriend who is a father of 2 himself. Our family right now consists of a very hectic life of an 8, 7, 4, and 19 month old. My boyfriend and i had made the decision that our family was perfect, and we were content on no more kids. well surprise....I took a pregnancy test and got a BFP! We have had so many mixed emotions and had talked about our options, whether or not to keep this baby or terminate and decided first thing first we needed to find out how far along i am. i went to the doctor Monday to have an ultrasound and expected to see a lima bean on the screen. I was completely shocked to have the ultrasound tech tell me i am 17 weeks!!! my lima bean has arms and legs and facial features and was moving all about! My initial shock of being pregnant was over, but now i am feeling this new shock of how far along i am and the fact that my options are limited now. i want to be excited but i am so full of mixed emotions i don't know which to process first!
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February 9th, 2012, 01:55 AM
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Hiya hunny, first off i cant imagine what you must be going through, being pregnant in itself triggers off all kind of emotions and hormones, then on top of that the unexpected shock of being !!!17 weeks too ..... (((((((((((big hugs))))))))))))

i cant really offer any advice as im not in your shoes,(and im currently ttc) all i can suggest is just talking it through with your oh , family or friends , sorry im not much help but i didnt want to read and run

just know that whatever you decide to do is whats best for you and your family please keep us updated x
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February 9th, 2012, 08:34 AM
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I could be way off.. but I think this baby could just unite your two families even more. s/he just wanted to be a part of that big wonderful family that the two of you created by the merging of your families.

Best of luck for you both. But no matter what the ladies of JM are here for you
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February 9th, 2012, 09:03 AM
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thank you both, we have decided to have the baby and do the best we can to enjoy this crazy roller coaster ride. I want so bad to be excited, its just hard. we don't have that much time left to figure everything out and make sure we are ready! guess we will just do the best we can! I am anxious to share this journey with all of you ladies, and appreciate you listening!
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February 9th, 2012, 03:48 PM
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Ohhhh im so glad you decided to keep the baby, and im sure in a few weeks when all has sunk in and settled you will start to enjoy this pregnancy

Cant wait for your updates on how the pregnancy is going, and remember us JM ladies are all here to support you....

now can i ask u a question, did u have af's as u only found out when 17weeks just curious? x
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February 9th, 2012, 05:05 PM
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Life is full of rollercoasters and right now you sound pretty shocked but once you have that baby in your arms everything will feel right and fall into place Congratulations! We are here for you.
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February 10th, 2012, 04:22 AM
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thank you all, i love it here!
now can i ask u a question, did u have af's as u only found out when 17weeks just curious? x
to answer that, no. but it was no strange thing for me not to have it. before i had kids i knew when i was going to get AF within 12 hours every month. then after kids i could go 14 days to 65 days, to bleeding on day a week for 3 weeks! since having my baby girl (who's gonna be 2) i stopped tracking, i wasnt planning on more kids and lost sight of following them. the last bleeding i had was random days throughout oct. and then a few random days again in november.
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February 11th, 2012, 02:48 AM
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You hear alot of ladies in the same boat, irregular af's etc not finding out untill later on

I cant imagine the shock of it all, but you sound like your coping well, and JM helps any lady do that,,,,,, i love this site too

cant wait for updates lots of love Bex x
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