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  #21  
April 2nd, 2012, 06:01 PM
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Hey hon, I have been thinking about you a lot today (and praying). I am sure you are under a ton of stress. I am hoping clarity comes soon and you can be confident and at peace with your decision. HUGS
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April 3rd, 2012, 09:59 PM
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Wow, thank you for sharing ladies.. It's making me tear up.. Again.

I've lost another piece of my dwindling support structure. Turns out my 'boyfriend' and my mom have a lot in common. I got back from my appointment at CareNet (very pleasant place) and now I'm more heavily considering adoption. I'm just scared of an abortion, really. I watched a video of stories from women who had them (and who kept them and who adopted out) and while I felt like it was a twenty minute scare tactic, maybe it served its purpose. I think the risk of what termination would do to me is greater than coming to terms with a pregnancy, even if I feel screwed by the implications no matter what choice I make. I want to do whatever will cause the least regrets and hardships for me and my two kids. And, I don't want to hate myself. I just don't know if that would happen.

I'm getting an ultrasound in a few weeks, they want me to be at least 8 weeks along and I'm just over six. Maybe that sonogram will speak to me. I'm hoping something or someone does. I need a shining light through this darkness.
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