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Hello everyone. I have been posting in my birth month board but just found this board too and thought I might be able to relate to some of you better. My name is Lennon and I am 21 years old. I was hooking up with a younger guy when I got pregnant. We are not in a relationship and that has made things interesting. He was very against adoption at the beginning and I would like to do adoption so that has also been tough. We are trying to get to know each other and see if we can make things work. If we can't by 28 weeks then he has agreed to do the adoption. We will see what happens.
It is hard because I feel like he is so young (18), just starting life and he has an athletic career in front of him and I don't think he realizes what it would take to be parents right now. So anyways, I am trying not to get to attached in case we do go with adoption while still trying to figure out how I could be a Mom right now. It is tricky and hard.
I will stop rambling now. Ha. I look forward to getting to know you all!
Welcome to the board! I had my first at 21 and my husband was 19. So we were in a similar situation. It is very doable but only you know what you are capable of. We are now 28/26 and have 4 babies, have been married for 7 years, it can work out if you want it to.