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July 30th, 2014, 02:56 AM
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I am terrified. Beside myself. Angry, and confused.

I am a 24 year old mother of two beautiful children. 6 years and 8 months. Recently I found out I am pregnant, again. Edd, 2/15/15. I am not ready for this. It couldn't have happened at a worse time. In a worse situation. I feel horrible. Like complete trash bc in my heart, I know I don't want this baby.


I'm scared of the little things , like what my mom will say. That I have no friends and no one to talk to about this , yes. But my main concern is,and always will be my relationship with their father. We do not get along. I loathe this man. He is the most controlling, psychotic, ******* I have evermet. He does nothing ever, to help me with these kids. Nothing. Living with him is like living with a 3rd child as is. He's filthy. Doesn't clean up after himself. He's abusive. He screams and breaks things all the time. He has hit me a few times. But that's rare. He always calls me names. He yells at me for the way I eat, the way I talk, he makes faces if he catches me naked and then calls me a fat a** when he's yelling. He tells me he won't leave, bc he just knows ill turn my girls into ******. I do not want to bring another baby into this mess. I'm already struggling to work with no help. Sleep with no help. I'm losing my sanity. And all I can think about, is how I just don't want this baby. I wanna run away. But cant quite do that knocked up. I have never felt this way in my life. I don't k ow what to do. I have no one to talk to. Every friend I've ever had disappeared when we started dating 4 years ago bc no one could stand him. My family doesn't even like him. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to handle this. Bc so far, I've just been stressed and angry. And sad and confused. I'm upset at myself. I'm angry at the world. I just need one friend. A bit of advice. Anything ...
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July 30th, 2014, 04:22 PM
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Hi amb1020! I can feel your anger towards the father of your children but please not to your child you're bringing. Everything has a reason, everything has a purpose. I believe that God gives us challenges according to our strength and capabilities to handle and solve it. Your children and their future must be your priority. Take away the people that keep you angry and pull you down. They can't help you. Congrats to your new baby!
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July 30th, 2014, 08:48 PM
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I completely agree with the previous post. I have been in one of those relationships, I was with him for almost 4 years until I finally broke it up for good. He tried to isolate me from family and friends and always insulted them trying to turn me against them. Now I have two beautiful girls (3 years and almost 2 years) an amazing husband and I'm 5 weeks pregnant! I also believe babies are a blessing and they deserve every chance at life. Ditch the loser, not the baby. Congrats on your new bundle!!
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August 1st, 2014, 04:17 AM
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I agree...........ditch the loser. Whatever you decide for yourself at this time, that person is not good for you or for your children. I thinking seeking counseling to help you figure out how to leave would help. Good luck. Sounds like a tough time for you but you can get through this.
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