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  #1  
March 3rd, 2007, 08:04 PM
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parent or parents or SO ever try to talk u into getting an abortion... my mother did and i straight up told her NO!
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March 4th, 2007, 04:26 AM
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my dad tried to talk me into putting my baby up for adoption. I got so upset at the thought of someone having the baby i made and loved so much. I didnt talk to him for weeks.

My bf(now dh) and i considered abortion. we thought about it for a week or so then realised we couldnt do it. he didnt try to talk me into it tho, it was a decision for both of us.
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March 4th, 2007, 04:31 PM
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I thougth about it.. but realized I couldnt do it... The baby's fathers family wanted me to get one and even wrote me a check if I would... They didn't want me to "ruin" his life... I never took the check... and now he's signing over rights to his son as soon as he's born.... BEcuase he doesn't want to even meet his son... And his family is sending me letters in the mail to try to see the baby.. after 6 months of not talking to me... Don't you love people!!!

My dad actually told me I should think about getting my tubes tied... That ticked me off and I didn't talk to him for a few weeks... It really wasn't his place and I'm only 22 and this is my first baby! I don't know what he was thinking...
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March 4th, 2007, 05:30 PM
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nope.... DF and I got into a fight once early on and he said "if the baby is going to be so much of a problem just get rid of it".... but by the time I came home, his face was buried in the couch, he was so ashamed of what he said.
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March 20th, 2007, 04:00 AM
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me and my s/o got pregnant when i was 18 and had an abortion and when we got pregnant again when i was 22 (unexpected) we pondered abortion for a few weeks but decided we didn't want to go thru two abortions, so we kept her.
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March 20th, 2007, 05:27 AM
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My bf was very upset when I got pregnant. He kept pushing abortion and then adoption. Now he's kissing my belly every night and talking to the baby and making sure I eat and taking care of me when I'm sick. Total turn around!

My mom has been wanting another grandchild for awhile now she was immediately thrilled!
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March 20th, 2007, 05:31 AM
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men just cant handle the shock as well as we can. we have hormones making us love the baby from very eary on, we cant be as objective as they can.

my dh was so calm about it all. almost too calm....
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March 20th, 2007, 01:49 PM
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Julian and I talked about it, but decided nope, we are gonna own up to our responsibilities. And it was the best decision him and I ever made!
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March 20th, 2007, 02:21 PM
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Julian and I talked about it, but decided nope, we are gonna own up to our responsibilities. And it was the best decision him and I ever made![/b]
ditto to that. theres not a day that passes that i dont feel so blessed for having this baby inside me and thank my lucky stars that i didnt get rid of it.
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March 20th, 2007, 03:37 PM
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My mother called me for two week straight to talk me into get an abortion. Dh wasn't to thrilled about the pregnancy but the next day he said that he didn't wanna be a dead beat like his dad and he wanted me to have the baby. And he just recently said that he sometimes gets emotional about how he treated me when we first found out i was pregnant. He says he can't imagine life with out our DD.
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March 22nd, 2007, 10:25 AM
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Hi, i am new in here.

When i first told bf i was pregnant he was a little upset, he kept asking me what i wanted to do and if i was sure i wanted to keep it, he said she wasn't sure if he was ready, but he never told me to get an abortion.
Now he is feeling better about it.

i was too scared to tell my mother is person so i sent her an e-card she replied saying she was happy for us, but she has never brought it up when i'm around. i don't get the feeling she is too happy and it hurts me...

Everyone else is totally happy for us though.
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March 22nd, 2007, 12:08 PM
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My mom wanted me to get one because I was 17 and I wasn't ready. I told her no... I was going to have my baby. Now she loves him more than anything, and regrets trying to get me to have one.
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March 22nd, 2007, 12:12 PM
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No one ever tried to get me to have an abortion. I think they all knew better because I am SOOO outspokenly pro-life.

I did however misunderstand something my boyfriend said to me when we first found out and thought he wanted me to have one. I just cried and cried until he calmed me down to tell me I was crazy!

I think it's rotten someone would try and pressure anyone (gf, daughter, friend or whomever) to have an abortion if it isn't what they want.
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March 22nd, 2007, 03:03 PM
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i'm extremely prochoice and i think that if a woman wants an abortion than she should get all the support she needs, but no one should ever make her think that its the best thing for her.
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March 23rd, 2007, 07:56 AM
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Her father practically forced me to get one...I couldn't go through with it. I considered it but I just couldn't do it. And thank God, I look at her now and get shivers thinking "what if". She is the most precious thing in the world, it kills me that I ever considered it
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March 23rd, 2007, 05:41 PM
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And thank God, I look at her now and get shivers thinking "what if". She is the most precious thing in the world, it kills me that I ever considered it [/b]
i think that every day and i havent even seen my baby yet. I can only imagine what it must feel like when you look into their little face and think you almost lost them...
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March 23rd, 2007, 09:12 PM
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I cried so hard when I first had the positive test that my husband told me that he would support whatever decision I made about the pregnancy. We had an ultrasound that same day and after he saw/heard the heart, he wanted to keep her. Good thing, cause that is what I was going to do.
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March 25th, 2007, 03:32 PM
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My boyfriend and Mom told me they would support me in whatever decision I made. My boyfriend suggested abortion only because he was concerned about my health. I thought about it for a couple days but realized I just couldn't get rid of something so precious. My doctor told me it would be very unlikely for me to get pregnant--so how could I destroy such a miracle? Lots of my friends PUSHED abortion so much that I actually don't talk to most of them anymore. I couldn't believe how unsupportive they were. Oh well. I'm so glad I decided to keep the baby though! :-)
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March 26th, 2007, 02:32 AM
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My doctor told me it would be very unlikely for me to get pregnant--so how could I destroy such a miracle?[/b]
does that mean your pregnancy will be high risk?
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