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friend Joe 2 22.22%
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March 27th, 2007, 04:37 PM
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ok, this is a hypethetical question....

"Jane" is in a relationship with "Bob", but they haven't had sex in 6 months. one night "Jane" has sex with her old friend "Joe". while having sex with "Joe" he ejaculates inside of her. but "Joe" had a vasectomy 3 years ago. then a few days later her boyfriend "Bob" finally wants to have sex. they only have sex for a few minutes and then they are interrupted. since they only did it for a few minutes "Bob" was only "half way there", so therefore did not orgasm/ejaculate at all. the boyfriend "Bob" is not fixed. a month later "Jane" finds out that she is pregnant. she is confused as to who the father is considering her boyfriend "Bob" didn't even come close to orgasming, but "Joe" is fixed, and furthermore, she had sex with both of them within a few days time. so who do you think the father is?

if you have thoughts, I'd be very interested in hearing them!
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March 27th, 2007, 04:54 PM
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I'm gonna go with Bob... because there is sperm in preejaculate so it's possible. It could also be Joe because nothing is absolutely 100%... but I think the failure rate would be higher with a "pull n pray" type situation.

Is there a right answer?
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March 27th, 2007, 04:58 PM
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no, there's no right answer, it's just hypethetical. I was only wondering what everyone thought because "bob" wasn't even close to orgasm, and although I know you can get pregnant with "pre-cum",
I've heard that that is only when you're at least "on your way" to orgasm, he wasn't even close. so I just want to hear what everyone thinks. LOL.
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March 27th, 2007, 05:03 PM
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no, there's no right answer,[/b]
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I've heard that that is only when you're at least "on your way" to orgasm,[/b]
Hmm... I never knew that. I always thought there's sperm in all precum. Interesting
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March 27th, 2007, 05:50 PM
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I've heard that that is only when you're at least "on your way" to orgasm,[/b]
Hmm... I never knew that. I always thought there's sperm in all precum. Interesting
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There is absolutely sperm in precum, close to orgasm or not. I'm going with Bob. Let me explain. Most of the time when a man has a vs, he goes in a few weeks later to make sure it was successful. Not to say that it is completely impossible (got in trouble for saying that in an earlier post ), but what is more probable is that Bob had precum.

I think it would also be helpful to add in the factor of possible ovulation, even though there is only a few days to work with, it could be a helpful piece of information to know the approximate date that the little lady thought she released the egg.
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March 27th, 2007, 06:45 PM
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I don't know about the precum thing, I was only saying what I heard.

I don't know about the ovulation thing because this is only hypethetical lol.
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I don't know about the ovulation thing because this is only hypethetical lol.[/b]

I don't know why, but that made me smile uncontrollably...
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March 28th, 2007, 05:16 AM
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i'm gonna go with bob.

can i ask what the point of the hypothetical situation is?
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March 28th, 2007, 05:59 AM
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I am not picking. It really could be either of these men.
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March 28th, 2007, 06:23 AM
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What is the point of hypothetical when the internet is anonymous?
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my sentiments exactly.
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March 28th, 2007, 10:37 AM
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im pretty much in that hypothetical situation with a little bit of different things to it. i had sex with one guy... using protection then he left to nova scotia and i slept with a guy i was kind of seeing but not exclusivly... without protection... then a month later i found out i was pregnant...

when i tell most people they always say its more likely the guy that i had sex with without protection but it still could be the other guy

so if this is just a hypotetical situation, i would say the only way to know for sure is a paternanty test... otherwise your always gonna wonder
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March 29th, 2007, 01:23 AM
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um i got pregnant by the pull out method =/
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March 29th, 2007, 04:10 AM
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i had sex with one guy... using protection then he left to nova scotia and i slept with a guy i was kind of seeing but not exclusivly... without protection... then a month later i found out i was pregnant...[/b]
how long was there between you having sex with them?
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March 29th, 2007, 09:52 AM
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i had sex with one guy... using protection then he left to nova scotia and i slept with a guy i was kind of seeing but not exclusivly... without protection... then a month later i found out i was pregnant...[/b]
how long was there between you having sex with them?
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less than a week between the two of them... but my conception date was a week after i slept with the guy who left and like 2 or 3 days after the guy without protection. lol its a very confusing situation i must admit. but i brought it all on myself so theres really nothing i can do about it haha
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March 29th, 2007, 01:55 PM
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What is the point of hypothetical when the internet is anonymous? [/b]

The only "point" to the question was just that I was curious about what everybody thought about it because someone hinted to me (a few days before I posted the original post) that she might be in that situation, so it just got me wondering, that's all.
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March 29th, 2007, 02:12 PM
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The only "point" to the question was just that I was curious about what everybody thought about it because someone hinted to me (a few days before I posted the original post) that she might be in that situation, so it just got me wondering, that's all.
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Hmmm.... well tell her congratulations for me!
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March 29th, 2007, 05:03 PM
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lol ok
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