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  #21  
May 21st, 2007, 04:16 AM
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I want to ask all the BTDT moms especially, towards the end of the pregnancy how did your realtionships cope? I'm getting really hormonal and uncomfortable so it doesnt take much to make me cross and snap at my DH. most of the time he understands, but i feel so bad for taking it out on him.

How did your DH take the sudden mood swings?
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May 21st, 2007, 07:47 PM
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Hi Ladies,
I am Alexis... I post on the Nov DDC board, but I definitely belong on this one! So just chiming in.......

When I found out I was pregnant, we were no longer seeing each other. We would literally see each other every day because we work together, but as far as dating, it had ceased.
I found out, told him, and he immediately accused me of trying to trap him and told me that I was on my own.... he'd pay child support but wanted nothing to do with the baby.
After about a month or so, and a lot of talking with another coworker, he decided to stay in SF (he was planning to skip town) and play an active part in our child's life.
Our relationship is closer, but I am constantly on guard. I don't trust him, as much as I would love to take everything he says at face value, part of me always wonders if he will take off.
The hardest part is that I do love him very much, and I think he feels obligated to be with me because of hte baby. I don't want someone to feel beholden to me... I want him to love me! So yeah, our relationship is a mess..... but on the surface we have gotten closer. I now have a key to his apartment and stay there a lot. Although I probably shouldn't : (
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May 26th, 2007, 11:29 AM
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<span style="font-family:Georgia">Im sorry to hear this. but personally i think you need to have a serious talk with hem..weather he wants to be with YOU (and only you) or not. because it just sounds like he is "playing a game" to me at lease. and personally i'd not be for that what so ever.. dont lead urself on thinking someday he will love u for you and want to be together forever. cause mens minds are extremly different then ours. i'd personally would not stay at his house unless he changes you know? i feel bad for you. </span>
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May 27th, 2007, 03:15 AM
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I want to ask all the BTDT moms especially, towards the end of the pregnancy how did your realtionships cope? I'm getting really hormonal and uncomfortable so it doesnt take much to make me cross and snap at my DH. most of the time he understands, but i feel so bad for taking it out on him.

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Well, I have bi-polar so my DF was well used to mood swings by the time I got pregnant. But during pregnancy they got a lot worse, and some days he avoided me because he couldn't handle it.
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