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May 5th, 2007, 03:42 AM
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Hey im Ashlee. 16 with a 10 month old baby girl, ebony. I just recently found out that im pregnant again. im no longer with the dad of my 10 month old, or my unborn child and hes really pressuring me to get an abortion. Im not sure where to post this, i just was wondering what you guys all thought. anyone in the same position as me?
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May 5th, 2007, 03:55 AM
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firstly CONGRATULATIONS on your little girl ebony and your new pregnancy.

most of us have been in your situation at some point. an unplanned pregnancy is always hard, but you need to do whats best for you and not let anyone try to tell you that an aobrtion is the best thing if you dont agree. being forced into something like that will haunt you forever.

have you got family to support you? how far along are you?
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May 5th, 2007, 04:02 AM
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I only found out 5 days ago. So i havent been to he doctor yet but im assuming about 4-6 weeks. And i have family, they wont be very supportive though. I already drained them all so much when i had ebony so young.
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May 5th, 2007, 08:18 AM
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Please do not get an abortion if it is not what you really want. Don't let anyone talk you into it.

and congratulations, your daughter is beautiful.
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May 5th, 2007, 10:36 AM
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When i got pregnant with Sasha my ex had just gotten another chick pregnant too so naturally he wanted me to have an abortion. He pushed and pushed finally we just stopped talking cause no matter what i wasn't gonna do that. I had a m/c three years earlier and i didn't want to go through that pain again and knowing i did it to myself for some guy would of killed of me. What i'm trying to say is it's your decision. No one can tell you what to do. If you need anyone to talk to, you can pm me.
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May 6th, 2007, 07:15 PM
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Please don't have an abortion. You have a beautiful baby girl there, Ebony, and another beautiful child growing inside of you. God doesn't make mistakes and your baby deserves the chance to live.

Whatever you decide, God Bless you and give you strength.
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May 7th, 2007, 09:14 AM
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Have you considered adoption?
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May 7th, 2007, 01:25 PM
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I agree with the other ladies...don't let anyone pressure you into having an abortion if that isn't what you want.

There are SO many other options for you. Good Luck!
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i don't think anyone can decide this but you.
just make sure you are not pressured into any decisions.
it needs to be well thought out and you need to feel comfortable with your decision because it will affect you for the rest of your life. whether you have the baby and keep it, give it up for adoption, or even abort. you will always be affected in some way by this event.
my sister was first pregnant at age 15, then 17 again, and again at 23. she is now 26 with 3 beautiful kids, and things are tough for her sometimes but she makes it through and wouldn't change it for the world. with hardly any support from their father, working full time, and minimal government assistance, she continues to pay rent each month and send her kids to school and provide for them. she was pregnant 2 other times in between but decided to abort and she has nightmares to this day. she has already told me if she could go back and change it, she would have given it up for adoption rather than abortion but unfortunately that's not possible. i'm not saying either decision is right for you, but then again i would hate for you to make the same mistake. sorry this is confusing!!!
me personally... i do not believe in abortion and i would never do it, but i would never judge anyone else who did it. it is a personal decision and you have to do whats right for you. don't let anyone else judge you!
i hope this helps!!!
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May 11th, 2007, 07:02 PM
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hey

I really hope that everything works out for whatever is best for you. It is truly your choice. I wouldn't choose abortion, personally.. but that's MY choice.

I was furious when I found out that I was pregnant.. and I'm 20 and married, so I can't imagine what you're going through..

Good luck..
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May 12th, 2007, 12:48 AM
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It definitely won't be easy, but you could take care of both kids without the father if you had to... if he doesn't want the baby to the point that he wants you to have an abortion, you don't need him. It won't change his life at all if he's not involved...

I'm 18 and pregnant with my first... I'm very lucky that my boyfriend is stoked on having this baby, but I was so scared to tell him because I didn't think he would be and I thought for a while about having an abortion and not even telling him I was pregnant... I'm glad I didn't go that route now, but if I had it would've been my decision... just like whatever you choose now has to be yours...
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