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are any of you getting that sympathetic look and the "how are you coping?" question? i get it all the time and its really annoying. do i look like i'm in bits at the thought of having a baby or something?
I wanna hang a sign around my neck saying "I'm really happy, my little girl is healthy, I have an amazing husband and we cant wait to have this baby"
just cos Rebecca was unplanned doesnt mean she's not wanted!!!!
I know people are just trying to be nice but FFS!!!!
UGHHHHHH I GET THAT ALL THE TIME TOO!! OMG. esp from bf's mom who wanted me to abort SO badly.. just this look of pure pitty.. just because my baby was unplanned doesnt mean I am living a life of agony and mental dispair.
I'm getting the SURPRISED/SHOCKED/SYMPATHETIC response b/c even though it was unplanned, everyone just assumes this was an accident and feels bad for me. Its so annoying.[/b]
i get that in college mainly. all the girls there look at me with a look that says "oh that poor girl, i'd hate if it was me, i wonder how she copes" when really i am just so thrilled to have this baby. i see her as a miracle not an accident.