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  #21  
May 18th, 2007, 04:08 PM
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Honey I am sorry this has happened to you. I too was raped when I was 13 years old, but no pg came from it. ((Big Hugs))
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May 26th, 2007, 03:12 PM
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I think that in everything god has a plan even when we go through horrible experiences. I dont think he causes these experiences but he makes us strong enough to get through them but if your baby wasnt meant to be here, i dont think it would be.

mine is an unplanned pregnancy and it took until my 20th week to let go of all the disappointments (well in a sense) I mean, its not the baby's fault his daddy wont be around to help, its not his fault that his mother chose to stay in this type of relationship for years, I guess i just look at it now as its not my sons fault and I dont want to take it out on him, I was so scared that when he came that I would not love him like I should cause i was upset with his father but now all i can do is now try to figure out how Im going to do this, get ready and do my very best to be a good mother.

i mean I look at it like this yeah he is a part of his father but you know what. He is a part of ME and I happen to think Im a pretty good person. i have a good heart. I have been through hell,some horrible things but just because it happened to me doesnt mean it is me.

I am now finally getting excited to see his eyes looking at me and touch him. I'm seeing things in a different light. just know that you are stronger than you think. I'll be wishing you the best in the future months ahead of you.

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