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September 7th, 2005, 12:08 AM
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Hi, my name is Erica, I am 24, and now pregnant. It was totally unexpected, and unplanned...I was also on the birth control patch, when I got pregnant!!!! The "Dad" is not really in the picture anymore, we were together, "on and off" for a little over a year, and he wasn't too happy, when he found out the "news"...so there fore, we are not really together anymore, which doesn't bother me, ...all that much...But I will be a great Mom, no matter what, and looking forward to this, experience!!!
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September 7th, 2005, 12:32 AM
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Hi!
Well congrats on the pregnancy....That being said, I just wanted to let you know that I really admire your courage. I'm in a similar situation and have not been as sure of myself as you are. Thank you as you made me realize that everything will be ok.

Good luck!
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September 7th, 2005, 06:56 AM
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Congrats and good luck to you both!
You can do it!!!
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September 7th, 2005, 07:01 AM
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Welcome and congrats! You sound like you have your stuff together. Good luck!
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September 7th, 2005, 07:24 AM
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Congrats and Good Luck on your pregnancy. Sometimes the best things in life are unplanned. I am sure everything will work out and you will both be great single moms!!! Just the fact that you are coming here for advice and support shows that you want what is best for your child!
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September 7th, 2005, 08:55 AM
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Congratulations!!! Mine was unplanned but the greatest things in life are unplanned.
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September 7th, 2005, 02:27 PM
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Sorry things didn't work out for ya with the dad but oh well he seems like a jerk anyways.

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September 8th, 2005, 09:46 AM
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Welcome! It sounds like you are going to be a wonderful mom! I admire your courage and strength, this baby is very lucky to have you! Who knows, maybe things will work out for you guys in the future, or maybe he weill at least come around for your baby's sake, but if not, oh well! Many moms have done it on their own, and I admire each and every one of them! You're such a role model girl, keep up the good work! If you need support we are all here for you! Just let us know!
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September 8th, 2005, 12:52 PM
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Wanted to THANK YOU, all for your support &encourgement!! You have put a smile on my face, and brightened my sad thoughts!!! Just goes to show, how some things can be said, and make someone feel sooooo much better!! Thanks!!!

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September 8th, 2005, 03:17 PM
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Congrats! I am also pregnant with an unplanned baby! My fiance and i have been together over 4 yrs and have a 3 yr old! When i got pregnant he was Not thrilled! He wanted me to get an abortion! He told me he would leave if i decided to go through with the pregnancy! Well after about a month things calmed down and he is more accepting of the fact we are going to be parents again! He even went to my OBGYN with me in Aug. I think men are scared when something they dont expect happens! It takes them a little longer than us to accept things! Believe me the last thing i wanted was to be pregnant with all the problems with our 3yr old autisic daughter but i thank god every day that i am! I know you will be a good mother!
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September 12th, 2005, 04:33 PM
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Good luck and congrats. I am 19 and my baby was also unplanned. I was on the pill and now I'm pregnant. These birth control babies are meant to be. They made it through barries to be conceived. I am fortunate enough to be with the babies father, but most days aren't easy. The fighting exhausts me and stessing me and the baby out. Sometimes I think it would be better to be single. But none the less we are all on paths choses for us. Good luck and I hope you have a healthy pregnancy.
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September 13th, 2005, 07:35 AM
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September 14th, 2005, 09:53 PM
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Congratulations on your pregnancy and good luck!
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