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September 16th, 2005, 12:35 PM
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Well this morning, I wake to my alarm clock, that I have set to go off, to the radio...I have it set on my fave country station....it goes off this morning, and the song, made me start bawling my eyes out...was saying "not a day goes by that I dont think of you still" and with me not being with my baby's father, it just hurt, right where the worst hurt spot could be...my heart...I hate this! Break up's were always a hard thing to do, with any long term relationship, in the past, but usually I ALWAYS got over him, and ended up laughing at myself for crying all them times, and how stupid I was, LOL, but with this case, no matter how hard I try to forget him, its kinda impossible, especially since one way or the other...he will be in my life, forever, since I am having his kid. Still havent talked to him, in about 2 months, he doesnt even know where I am, or how I am doing....nothing, thought that would be the best, and easiest way for me to let go of him, but I find it hasnt...I want to call him, but am nervous. I dont know what to do!!!! Anyone have any advice?
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September 18th, 2005, 10:55 AM
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Originally posted by BlueHaze24@Sep 16 2005, 02:35 PM
Well this morning, I wake to my alarm clock, that I have set to go off, to the radio...I have it set on my fave country station....it goes off this morning, and the song, made me start bawling my eyes out...was saying "not a day goes by that I dont think of you still" and with me not being with my baby's father, it just hurt, right where the worst hurt spot could be...my heart...I hate this! Break up's were always a hard thing to do, with any long term relationship, in the past, but usually I ALWAYS got over him, and ended up laughing at myself for crying all them times, and how stupid I was, LOL, but with this case, no matter how hard I try to forget him, its kinda impossible, especially since one way or the other...he will be in my life, forever, since I am having his kid. Still havent talked to him, in about 2 months, he doesnt even know where I am, or how I am doing....nothing, thought that would be the best, and easiest way for me to let go of him, but I find it hasnt...I want to call him, but am nervous. I dont know what to do!!!! Anyone have any advice?*
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First of all I would like to say that I am sorry that you are feeling so blue. I have never been in your exact situation but my husband is pretty discontected sometimes. When the baby gets here you will be the one with the blessings and he will be missing out. I wouldn't call him let him call you. After you have the baby you can call and let him know, then let him decide if he wants to be involved or not. Either way the baby will have you. I will keep you in my thoughts and pray for you and your baby. Men can be such jerks.
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September 18th, 2005, 06:03 PM
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IMO you have every right to call him since you're having his baby... i'm not familiar with your history with him but he may be curious in knowing how your pregnancy is going.... and if wasn't at first, maybe he is now.

I'm sorry you have to go through this alone... remember, we're always here for you (even though we're on the internet!)
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