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i was 16 when i had my first dd and boy was that timing way off but i am so thrilled that i had her. she is my life!! also, the next time i became pregnant my first was only 6 months old! things happen for a reason and i think maybe you should adjust to that. good luck and i hope that you make the right decision. keep us posted
honestly, i was 7 months pregnant when i got married. like everyone else said its not the worst thing that can happen. i really hope that things look up for you because having a child was the best thing i ever done
I have gotten pregnant on birth control, with my daughter of now 5 months old, she was conceived, while I was taking bc, so it can happen, and it isn't your fault at all. I took mine every day at the same time, didn't even miss a day and still got pregnant..For some people, birth control pills don't work plain and simple.
I hope you are doing ok. What have you decided you are going to do about this baby? are you going to keep her? Whatever you decide, remember you are not at fault, and that things happen. I wish you the best.
this is the second time I have gotten pregnant while using BC. I had gotten pregnant this summer but I made the decision to terminate the pregnacy for personal reasons. now here it is October and I'm pregnant once again while using birth control. what is wrong with me? I thought I was doing everything right,I don't want a child right now.[/b]
i am in the same boat as you... my first baby was a BC pill baby but she was a m/c. my second was completely unplanned but we kept her b/c we were devastated over the loss of our first. i used the neuva ring b/c there is NO way to skip taking a pill, i thought it was fool proof. obviously not... i don't believe ever that if you are not ready for "consequences" of sex you should abstain. sorry i just don't. okay maybe maybe if you were 15 and condom-less abstain... but you are a mature woman. lol! you were doing the responsible thing by taking BC and you are in a committed relationship, why not!?
at any rate there really is not much either of us can do about this now but i am on your side about not being happy about it; this messes up everything for me. I hope you can work out your wedding plans. I know this is about 2 months later but i just wanted to let you know you're not alone in how you feel.
I am the same way very fertile. I have 4 children and all of them are birth control babies. Pill, morning after pill, shot and patch. I was a person who never planned on having children. My husband and I had intercourse on New Year's Eve and I just found out I am pregnant again.