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I'm wondering on how the SO's/DH's reacted to the news of the upcoming baby?
I have 2 girls... Victoria, 2 1/2 yrs....and Emilia, 7 months....both were unplanned...
My SO has a son from a previous relationship who was also unplanned...Tristen, who's 7.
When I got pregnant wth Tory...shortly after we were together, everything changed in Scott...I mean in showing affection towards me. I know he's got some kind of phoebia now that he's going to get me pregnant. And well...kids are expensive. So in a way I understand...but then again. Things stated to get better between us when Tory was a year and a half old. He'd actually come home and spend time with us instead of going out for beers or playing his games...but then I got pregnant again ....and things got worse...Now there's nothing at all!! I'm going insane! It's like living with a roomate rather than boyfriend/husband!! We've been together 4 years, and this has been going on for 3....will it change?
So...Have any of you women gone thru this? And what was your solution?
Man, I'm sorry. That's really tough. Right now is when you need him the most. My husband wasn't distant really at all. Well, maybe for the first week. We got married in July and I got pregnant on the honeymoon. We were planning on waiting a couple years, you know, to get to understand eachother better. So that was a little hard for both of us. But we're both really excited now. I'm really sorry you're going through that. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Thank you Chelsea (marriedc) for my beautiful siggy