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my husband and i have two beautiful little boys.. ages 5 and 11 months. I'm not on BC, but we have been using a condom religiously. we haven't talked about having another baby, but I know it would not be good for our situation right now.. we are just now getting back to normal after the second.. my husband was distant throughout that entire pregnancy because it was unplanned..
a couple of weeks ago, we had sex, using a condom, but the condom slipped off and we didn't realize it until he pulled out.. I have been spotting for 2 days now, nothing major, and cramping a little.. my period is supposed to start at the end of the week. I am so scared that I am pregnant and I don't want to tell him because I am afraid he will become distant again..
I guess I am looking for support right now... because I have to wait and see if Aunt Flow arrives later this week... but I just know that I am pregnant...
Oh boy. That definitely would be stressing me out, too.. but the good news is if it happened a couple of weeks ago, and AF isn't due until the end of the week.. it mostly didn't line up quite right and you're fine..
Definitely keep us updated. Everything will be okay!
I tend to agree with the other women, unless you have a really long cycle, you're probably ok. Regardless I hope things between you and your husband get better. It must be difficult to feel so alone at a time like this. My thoughts are with you. Good luck and let us know what happens!