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Well, I took a pregnancy test this morning, and it prooved to be a very faint positive. So now we're faced with a little dilemma.
You see, we already have 2 children. A son whose 25 months old, and a daughter who is 3 months old. (Our daughter was also born 12 weeks premature. Her corrected age is 4 weeks old, as she was due January 6th 2008)
My last period was 30th December 2007 making me around 5 weeks pregnant, from my LMP.
Hubby is telling me we can't afford it and don't have the room and that abortion is the only way, but I don't agree with abortion, although on the other things I'm just not sure.
I have no idea what to do and would really welcome any and all advice.
As having 3 children under three really freaks me out, regardless of the fact that I have always wanted three kids. If this pregnancy did go ahead, hubby would definitely be getting a vasectomy afterwards.
Aww Hugs! I am sure this is a stressful time... And we are all here for you. If you want it bad enough you will do whatever you have to do to support your children and most importantly youll give them all the love in the world. Good Luck making your decision!
i would say go with your instinct. If you know abortion is something that you cannot do, i would say keep your baby. i know when i got pg with my dd my dh was so upset but i know i couldn't live with the fact that i aborted my child. I know abortion is not for me. I don't think its the end of the world. Yes your hands will be full but it can be done. Hopefully you and dh can come to some type of understanding. I hope everything works out for the best.
Trust your heart. If you don't want an abortion, adoption is an option. I was adopted as was my brother, and I think it's one of the most selfless acts a pregnant woman can do when she is unsure whether or not she is prepared for a baby.