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March 5th, 2008, 07:13 AM
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I'm having this baby. For the past (almost) 4 weeks I've been going back and forth. One day I'm having her/him, the next day I decide to terminate. I've been so caught up with doing the "right" thing for everyone involved (my kids, FOB and his kids) that I didn't know which way was up. I was sure that my parents even thought it would be better to terminate.

I just got off the phone with my mom. I told her how I honestly feel, with the ups and downs and finally she said to me "Heather, why don't we have a baby?!!?" You have no idea how great it was to hear that. I've been so worried about finding a job and supporting everyone and knowing that I'm on my own now and will be on my own was soooo hard. My mom just happens to be looking for a new employee and told me she wanted me to come work for her (again!) She owns a maid service, so it's domestic work but I really don't mind it all. She'll make sure that I have my hours in before the baby comes so that I can take my year off with mat. pay.

So....you ladies are the first to know for sure.... <span style="font-family:Comic Sans MS">I'm having a baby</span>!!!!

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March 5th, 2008, 07:22 AM
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oh my goodness that is awesome!!!! yay!!!!!!!!!!! = )

I'm glad your mom is behind you. That makes a world of a difference.. especially since she has an opening for you. Oh I'm so happy for you!

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March 8th, 2008, 09:26 PM
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That's great!

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March 12th, 2008, 01:20 PM
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That's awesome hun! Im glad things are looking up for you now !
beckii ... momma to my beautiful princess Mikayla Lynn 01.18.06
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March 13th, 2008, 11:10 PM
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Yay! What a big and hard decision! I will keep you in my thoughts that everything works out wonderfully for you!

Thanks *Kiliki* for the precious siggy!

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March 15th, 2008, 01:58 PM
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Congrats and best wishes
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March 18th, 2008, 08:29 PM
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Congrats!!! I'm so glad that you have your family behind you to support you. Things always seem a little easier when someone is in your corner.

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March 19th, 2008, 05:00 AM
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Thanks ladies.

Seems weird, today was the day I set to have the termination done, and here I am, posting at the same time I'm supposed to be at the hospital filling out my paperwork. I must say I'm so relieved I'm not there.

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March 19th, 2008, 07:34 PM
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Congrats on your little one. And good luck for the future.

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March 20th, 2008, 05:55 PM
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I'm very happy for you.
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March 21st, 2008, 01:43 PM
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Dropping in from Aug 07 PR. Congratulations!!!!
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March 22nd, 2008, 08:01 AM
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That's great! Any decision you would have made would have been right for you! Glad you're excited and your mother is such a great person the do that for you
Tabitha - Engaged to Jimmy, Mommy to Cole(5.2.07) and Baby #2 on the way!
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