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And got the reaction I knew I was going to get....only it is something about actually hearing him say what he said is somehow still a shock of sorts...
So, I drop the news and he is like no way jose'.....then it sinks in and he says 'I do not want another baby'. I told him I know. He said, "having another child was not what he planned or wanted'...again I know this....
Anyway, he then tells me he does not think we should have it...
So that is where we stand. I am not thrilled, but I do not want to have an abortion...but I also don't want to have a baby my DH does not want...then there will be resentment, and I know how things can turn ugly.
I am so sorry that you got that reaction. It's the exact reaction I got and I have gone through just about every emotion and every option available. Please feel free to PM me if you want to. I have MSN as well if you just want to "talk it out".
You'll make a decision that will work for YOU. There is a lot to consider but in the end you get to make the decision.
I'm sorry your dh acted that way... You need to do what you think is best, afterall this baby is inside you not your dh... Try talking things out with him and see what happens... I know a lot of people who weren't thrilled to be having a baby but after the baby arrived it was a totally different story... Maybe your situtation will be the same... Good luck with your decision and congratz on the pregnancy! Kup!