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In the younger years for your kids, did you make a point to get out of the house daily or every few days (for story times, playdates, playgrounds), or was it more important for you to stay home and keep your routine going?
We stay home a LOT. It seems like every time I go out, I end up regretting it. When we are home things go much smoother and I'm somewhat on top of daily chores. I'd prefer to be home for sure, but I do get out once a week for Levi's music class, maybe every other week a play date out or trip to the playground.
It always seems like someone is sleeping or eating and by the time we get packed up, we've missed our window.
I don't have any friends that are like that. Everyone else is go, go, go all the time and I don't know how they do it. Do you think it's more common to stay home when you have young kids close in age? Or is that just me?
When my kids were younger i preferred to stay in to keep routine only going out if something fell in between nap times, i hated being out with cranky kids when it should be there nap time, everything ran smoother if we stuck to routine.
I do go out with them quite a bit, but only because there is a playgroup that runs monday to friday and fits in with their naps, so it works out pretty good. I really don't like messing with their naps because they get so cranky, and i feel too wore out without a few hours in the day to myself.
Special thanks to Claire1979 for my beautiful siggy!
My family and friends know that I will only schedule outings/playdates/shopping trips during a certain window of time. I have actually missed many parties/get-togethers b/c they were too late in the evening, and I've been late to many others so I didn't have to wake the girls up from their naps. It would be ridiculous to have them miss a nap b/c then everyone's day would be ruined with crankiness.
That being said, though, we go out several days awake to the zoo or park or a friends house. I just schedule between the two naps.
Thank you so much, Kiliki, for my gorgeous siggy!!
i usually schedual outings as well...i dont like to be out after 3 because we have dinner at 5 and with dd sleep problems by the time 3 rolls around she is acting out horribly and i dont want to deal with it in public because i get really dirty looks and people say snotty things under their breath about it. so usually in the morning works for us after they have eaten breakfast and woken up for an hour or two.
Nessa proud married working mother of three kids in Washington state. Trying to raise our family of five as LDS. Taking life one day at a time. Jordan - 6 yr; Stan - 4 yr; & Tyler - 2 yr.
We don't do schedules/routines...Just go with the flow. I think it has made the kids so much more easy going and a lot better able to deal with changes and the unexpected. If the kids miss a nap they don't get cranky or miss a beat because we just always go with the flow....no day is ever the same.