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September 4th, 2006, 06:43 PM
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What if one day a woman came to you and said that she was pregnant with your husband’s child. What if she said that she didn't want the child? But she said you could have the baby or else she would have an abortion.

Would you take the child to raise? Or would you let her have an abortion?
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September 4th, 2006, 06:45 PM
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Hmm.. I would leave my husband for being a cheat and let him deal with it...
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September 4th, 2006, 07:14 PM
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Hmm.. I would leave my husband for being a cheat and let him deal with it...[/b]
What if he didn't want it either?
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September 4th, 2006, 07:26 PM
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wow good question. If my hubby didnt want it, and the girl didnt either. I would take the baby, make them BOTH sign over rights to the child. Than kick them both to the curb.
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September 4th, 2006, 07:50 PM
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I'd keep the baby.

How I'd dela with my husband doesn't fit into my pro-life argument. lol
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September 4th, 2006, 08:15 PM
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I'd keep the baby.

How I'd dela with my husband doesn't fit into my pro-life argument. lol[/b]
HA HA!
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September 4th, 2006, 08:45 PM
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haha crunchy. LOL.
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September 4th, 2006, 09:55 PM
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I'd take the baby and kick them both to the curb.
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September 5th, 2006, 07:44 AM
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wow, if neither the woman or my husband (would be ex husband immediately) wanted the baby then that would be their choice to abort. I wouldn't get involved.

That was a really good question!
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September 5th, 2006, 09:28 AM
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wow, if neither the woman or my husband (would be ex husband immediately) wanted the baby then that would be their choice to abort. I wouldn't get involved.

That was a really good question![/b]
Ditto to this.
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September 5th, 2006, 09:29 AM
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What if one day a woman came to you and said that she was pregnant with your husband’s child. What if she said that she didn't want the child? But she said you could have the baby or else she would have an abortion.

Would you take the child to raise? Or would you let her have an abortion?[/b]
Hell no I wouldn't raise that child. I would completely support her idea for an abortion but I don't think I'm a strong enough character to support her at all.

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What if he didn't want it either?
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What a jerk he would be then...

Aside from the pregnancy, unless we had children, I wouldn't hestitate leaving him because of the cheating in the first place.
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September 5th, 2006, 09:49 AM
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Add me to the hell no group. Not my problem.
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September 5th, 2006, 05:40 PM
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As much as I'm against abortion, I don't see why I should be responsible for that child. It would be very difficult for me emotionally to raise that child. It would break my heart to know that an unnecessary abortion will happen, but as I said, it's not my responsibility. If that were the case I should go and try to get the right over every other child that'll be aborted and I can't do that.

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September 5th, 2006, 05:48 PM
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Personally I would never take on the financial or emotional responsibility of raising my cheating pig of a husband and his mistresses “love” child
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September 5th, 2006, 06:27 PM
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I would take the baby! Babies don't ask to be "love children". All babies are precious, regardless of the situation in which they were conceived.
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September 5th, 2006, 08:06 PM
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September 6th, 2006, 01:37 AM
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I'd take custody of the child. That would be the half-sibling to my daughter. AKA, family.
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September 7th, 2006, 08:04 PM
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It's my husbands desition. I have no say. If he keep it and I keep him then I'd treat the child as I had bore it. If they choose to abort it then that's there choose it's in no case my choice. If I was no longer with DH then I would not asept the child even if I was asked to adopt it after it was born.
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