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July 23rd, 2007, 02:38 PM
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-That time of the month- just left me!!! Now to get back into working out & eatting better!

{Was bummed that we didn`t get pregnant this month tho} We will keep on trying...Sooooo much fun!!!

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July 23rd, 2007, 06:52 PM
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Unfortunatly, I have the opposite prob. We didn't anticipate my sweet baby boy that I love with all my heart. We had no idea he would come to us! So now that we know that DH is NOT SHOOTING BLANKS, we avoid all the fun. It has been difficult to say the least. I refuse to get on birth control....thats another story......so it's been hard to find 'alone' time. DH, Jeff, and I have been married for 18 years. And all the sudden its like we been married for 80 years! I hate it, and I miss him...

FOr those that don't know: DH, JEFF< got a vasectomy reversal 4 yrs ago. He got it after 13 yrs of having it done. We decided on this because he was in so much pain with his POST VASECTOMY PAIN SYNDROME. this is another story, but it was a last resort. WE knew I could become pregnant, but I thought I was too old and him too...my baby was 13! So here we are....with my sweetie, Jeffrie Jr. So go figure. I believe God had another plan in my life. But DH is not up for another child. SO here I am.
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July 24th, 2007, 05:22 AM
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Mike had a reversal 13 years ago
and we have had 7 children since. But not for pain reasons. We realized for us it was a mistake.
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July 24th, 2007, 06:55 AM
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Wow, interesting stories. As for me and dh, I had to go through 2 1/2 years of fertility treatments. I had my first at 39 (he was 45). He had another child from a previous marriage. We really wanted another, so had to go for more procedures and had her when I was 41. I don't know what it's like to have children when you're young, but it is quite exhausting when you're older. I really wanted children, though. Dh and I wish we had met each other so many years earlier.
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July 24th, 2007, 01:04 PM
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All of your stories are interesting..I`m glad you all shared them. It lets us all know more about each other.

Mel you already know this about my hubby John & I....but, thought I would share with the new moms on here.

I was in my first marraige for 23 years. Out of that marraige came my wonderful kids.Regina 27, Jeremy 24 & Jared 17 ...I divorced my Ex because of alot of mental/physical abuse due to his alcoholizm..Peace came over me after leaving him...Wonderful peace in my soul!

After meeting my wonderful hubby John ...I knew from the very start he would be a great Daddy...He had no children and in his 4Os...He thought he would never have children untill he met me.{The right woman for him}
After being together a year....we married...then tried to have a baby months after being married...we miscarried twice that year.
Then finally after lots of Prayers & finding a good doctor we were able to concieve our sweet baby girl Miranda .....She is now over a year old...How wonderful it would be to have another sweet baby together. We also think of how nice it would be for Miranda to have a younger brother or sister to be raised with...GOD only knows if this will happen. I will be 45 next year. We hace decided John will have the Big V done around that time.

And that is our story shortened alot!
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July 27th, 2007, 12:48 PM
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All of your stories are interesting..I`m glad you all shared them. It lets us all know more about each other.

Mel you already know this about my hubby John & I....but, thought I would share with the new moms on here.

I was in my first marraige for 23 years. Out of that marraige came my wonderful kids.Regina 27, Jeremy 24 & Jared 17 ...I divorced my Ex because of alot of mental/physical abuse due to his alcoholizm..Peace came over me after leaving him...Wonderful peace in my soul!

After meeting my wonderful hubby John ...I knew from the very start he would be a great Daddy...He had no children and in his 4Os...He thought he would never have children untill he met me.{The right woman for him}
After being together a year....we married...then tried to have a baby months after being married...we miscarried twice that year.
Then finally after lots of Prayers & finding a good doctor we were able to concieve our sweet baby girl Miranda .....She is now over a year old...How wonderful it would be to have another sweet baby together. We also think of how nice it would be for Miranda to have a younger brother or sister to be raised with...GOD only knows if this will happen. I will be 45 next year. We hace decided John will have the Big V done around that time.

And that is our story shortened alot!
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Thank you for sharing. I was kinda wondering!
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