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OK so me and dh went to bed and put on a porn movie.. we havent watch one in ages.. next minute i hear footstep and my door starting to open, i jump up to close the door before my daughter whos 6 turnin 7 sees it.. i tripped smashed my head on the floor, dh jumps up from under the blanket naked to check me.. 7 year old sees a guy holding his penis and dh naked.. i scream at her to get out..
she was upset so i went and talked to her she was crying because she thought i was angry at her.. more angry at myself because i forgot to lock the door... i asked her what she seen and apperently a man holding the thing his wee comes out of and daddy naked.. so what do i say.. yes dad was nakies because he was about to have a shower and mum was watchin a movie and the guy was gettin dressed.
but im still freaked out.. i feel like the worst mum ever.. i want to crawl in a hole..
my daughter never sees dh naked.. doesnt no boo about the birds and the bees.. and thats the way i wanted it.
what am i meant to do? i feel like the baddest person.. i want my kids to keep the innocence of not knowing anythin untill they are older : (
well i think you handled it well with telling her daddy is taking a shower and it was just a movie you are watching....that is all she needs to know at 6.....i'd be mortified too!! just keep calm and dont make such a big deal out of it....dont feel bad either! it happens!!
Hmm. I agree the bigger a deal you make of it the more she will probably think or ask about it. I would have just told her we dont walk into rooms that have the doors shut and please next time knock. I also would have said something about the shower thing, good idea.
Nessa proud married working mother of three kids in Washington state. Trying to raise our family of five as LDS. Taking life one day at a time. Jordan - 6 yr; Stan - 4 yr; & Tyler - 2 yr.
When my older son was 5 he was playing with the tv remote when I was making dinner. All of a sudden I hear him screaming and I run into the room he is in and see a porno on and him holding his hands over his eyes. Somehow he just kept hitting buttons and ordered it. I was trying to get it off the tv and couldn't exit out of it and in panic mode I ended up just yelling at him to go to his room!
(DUH I could have just turned off the darn tv, but I was so freaked out I couldn't think!)
I ended up figuring it all out and then went to his room to talk to him. He was upset over what he saw and he thought I was mad at him since I sent him to his room.
I am happy to report he is now a teenager and wasn't scarred from the incident! I am sure your daughter will be fine!