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October 24th, 2012, 04:44 AM
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OK so me and dh went to bed and put on a porn movie.. we havent watch one in ages.. next minute i hear footstep and my door starting to open, i jump up to close the door before my daughter whos 6 turnin 7 sees it.. i tripped smashed my head on the floor, dh jumps up from under the blanket naked to check me.. 7 year old sees a guy holding his penis and dh naked.. i scream at her to get out..

she was upset so i went and talked to her she was crying because she thought i was angry at her.. more angry at myself because i forgot to lock the door... i asked her what she seen and apperently a man holding the thing his wee comes out of and daddy naked.. so what do i say.. yes dad was nakies because he was about to have a shower and mum was watchin a movie and the guy was gettin dressed.

but im still freaked out.. i feel like the worst mum ever.. i want to crawl in a hole..

my daughter never sees dh naked.. doesnt no boo about the birds and the bees.. and thats the way i wanted it.

what am i meant to do? i feel like the baddest person.. i want my kids to keep the innocence of not knowing anythin untill they are older : (
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October 24th, 2012, 04:53 AM
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well i think you handled it well with telling her daddy is taking a shower and it was just a movie you are watching....that is all she needs to know at 6.....i'd be mortified too!! just keep calm and dont make such a big deal out of it....dont feel bad either! it happens!!
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October 24th, 2012, 05:02 AM
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I cant help but feel bad.. We are so private so I think it would shock her to.. and shes smart so i dunno if she bought the story.. i hope she did. ahh.. so bad.

Thanks for the reply.
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October 24th, 2012, 05:20 AM
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she was probably more freaked out about you falling and yelling than anything else...that is what she'll focus on...
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October 24th, 2012, 07:10 AM
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I agree- I think what you told her is all she needs to know right now, but I bet you will be locking the door next time, LOL!
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October 24th, 2012, 10:20 AM
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I agree with the other ladies, you handled it fine. She doesn't need to know anything else.
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October 24th, 2012, 03:22 PM
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Hmm. I agree the bigger a deal you make of it the more she will probably think or ask about it. I would have just told her we dont walk into rooms that have the doors shut and please next time knock. I also would have said something about the shower thing, good idea.
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October 24th, 2012, 03:34 PM
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I think you did the right thing for your family. Remember to lock the door next time.

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October 26th, 2012, 11:38 PM
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You handled it well.

When my older son was 5 he was playing with the tv remote when I was making dinner. All of a sudden I hear him screaming and I run into the room he is in and see a porno on and him holding his hands over his eyes. Somehow he just kept hitting buttons and ordered it. I was trying to get it off the tv and couldn't exit out of it and in panic mode I ended up just yelling at him to go to his room!

(DUH I could have just turned off the darn tv, but I was so freaked out I couldn't think!)

I ended up figuring it all out and then went to his room to talk to him. He was upset over what he saw and he thought I was mad at him since I sent him to his room.

I am happy to report he is now a teenager and wasn't scarred from the incident! I am sure your daughter will be fine!
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