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DH left yestreday at 10am on a snowmobile rally. He had gotten up with Avery super early and let me sleep in, and every cleaned the house, so extra points there.
But what I didn't anticipate was him being out until 5:30 this morning. Not only did he stay out late, but him and his friend sat out front in a diesel truck for 20 minutes so that woke me up, and then they came in and played pool in the basement, so he didn't come to bed until 7am just as I was getting up with Avery (I had been awake since they pulled up in the noisy truck though).
He only gets 1-2 days off per week, and now they are BOTH ruined because of his sledding/drinking. Go to bed at 7am means you are going to be sleeping all day. Great. I love spending 5 days alone with the baby and the entire weekend too.
I'll tell you what I won't be doing todays: trying to keep the baby quiet.
Proud mama to:
Avery Elizabeth (08/27/2011) & Dawsyn Brielle (10/29/2013)
ugh how annoying and inconsiderate!!!! I get that he wants to unwind sometimes after working and all...but I am sorry you are a husband and a father FIRST.....and staying out that late is unacceptable....and then coming home and making a lot of noise and what not...not cool at all!!! I would have NOT let dh sleep at all if he did that...I'd be like too bad so sad...you are the dumb@ss who decided to stay out like you are a teenager again and have no responsibilities at home...but guess what YOU DO now get your @ss outta bed and take care of YOUR DAUGHTER!
I am all for my fiance still getting to see his friends despite having a family, but that is just taking it too far! I would be super pissed about him coming home at 5:30am, not acceptable. I definitely would have not have kept the noise down so he could sleep in peace Hugs to you!!
Oh man, I would be LIVID. I agree that everyone deserves a chance to relax or go out with friends... but until 5:30 in the morning? That's just irresponsible and inconsiderate. Once you have kids, it's time to grow up! HUGS
I would be annoyed too!! My hubby used to sit up and play Playstation late at night on his days off and then want to sleep all day the next day! I was not very accommodating to that teenage behavior either! Hope your hubby is hungover and wakes up constantly today
Yikes! I like Kristy wouldnt have let him sleep either...not sure how old he is but its time to grow up? I agree you can chill and hang out whatever but there is a limit on that and he pushed far pass that IMO. sorry, hope you get some help with the little one soon and a break of your own.
Nessa proud married working mother of three kids in Washington state. Trying to raise our family of five as LDS. Taking life one day at a time. Jordan - 6 yr; Stan - 4 yr; & Tyler - 2 yr.