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April 25th, 2013, 07:26 AM
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I have never really written a rant post before but today i need to vent. So here it goes.

My DH and i got married July 08 and had our first baby October 08, he was a preemie and spent time in the NICU. He was really sick his first year and so my main focus was him. Thus resulting in birth control issues and then my surprise blessing, was born May 10, 18 months after her brother. Last year my DH and i had a miscarriage, this was my second miscarriage. We then decided to try again and after 6 months of trying we were pregnant with twins! We heard their heartbeats and we called them Polka Dot and Bumble Bee. At 9w 2d we found out Bumble Bee died. Then i had heart problems due to severe morning sickness. Then i started up with preterm labor. All calmed down but now my little girls is measuring 3.5 weeks behind and barely moves. Since im showing signs of labor the doctors are going to let me deliver on my own. Im 35 weeks and i love being pregnant but im so worn out. My kids seem frustrated that mommy never feels well and my DH is nervous about everything. Im done!

I need her to be born so i can touch her and see that she is ok. Im 25, married almost 5 years and soon to be the mother of 3. This is way more than i was prepared for.

Thank you for listening.
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April 25th, 2013, 07:30 AM
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ohh man what a lot to be going on I sure hope your little girl is okay!!! *hugs*
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April 25th, 2013, 08:40 AM
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Praying that everything is okay.
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April 25th, 2013, 10:37 AM
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*hugs* Sometimes life just gets all jumbled up and stresses the crap outta ya. Im sorry you have had so much on your plate.

Lovely blessings tho and I hope the delivery is soon and goes well and baby girl does super well and everyone can destress and enjoy!

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April 25th, 2013, 10:53 AM
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Hugs to you hun, that is a lot to deal with! I hope your delivery is wonderful and you baby girl is healthy! Thinking of you!!

BTW....on a lighter note...Do you have any names picked out for her yet?

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April 25th, 2013, 11:49 AM
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Awww... you must be so worn out! All my kids are close together too so I kinda get but I had pretty easy pregnancies. Hoping for the best for you!
Whitney... mommy to three crazy boys.

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April 25th, 2013, 01:01 PM
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Thank you ladies!!!
Yes we have named her. Her name is Clara Marie.
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April 25th, 2013, 02:20 PM
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A beautiful name. I hope she comes soon and everything goes smoothly.
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April 25th, 2013, 06:26 PM
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I am so sorry for what you are going through and so sorry for everything you have been through. She has such an old soul name, she will be perfect. Im sending you tons of love and light!

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April 26th, 2013, 09:46 AM
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Beautiful name! Sorry that you have been through so much. Pregnancy alone is hard enough sometimes, then add hurtles to jump through can make it unbearable also...hugggs to you and your sweet baby, I hope baby stays put for as long as she needs and that you have easy delivery!!
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April 26th, 2013, 12:08 PM
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Oh goodness, no wonder you needed to let those emotions out. That's a lot going on in a relatively short time. I hope you have a smooth delivery and healthy baby girl!! HUGS
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