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My name is christi and I am new here! I just joined today. I am 39 weeks preggo with baby number 5 and I have a question for all of you. This pregnancy is different than any other one of my kids. So I am kind of at a loss. I have been having BH for over a week now and they get strong but never amount to anything. This morning, I woke up with serious what felt like cramping, and been having contractions about 20 min apart all day. The contractions range from really strong and long to moderate and never really go away. But they are not moving closer together either. I have not lost my plug (that I know of, never did with any of kids) and do not have a bloody show. Since I have had 2 children by induction, and 2 children born with no pre labor pains (my water broke and 45 min later they were born) I have no idea what is going on. I am thinking they are just stronger BD's but not totally sure. Walking makes them worse, laying down makes them less severe. I was hoping that those of you who have experiences like this could shed some light. Any help would be much apperciated!
With my last pregnancy, I had tons of BH. They would frequently become longer than 1 minute and closer than 4 minutes--which is supposed to be "go to the hospital" time. But I just knew that it wasn't really it.
There were two clues to me that it was the real thing when my labor started: (1) bloody show--blood tinged mucus or plug happens when your cervix is dilating and blood vessels in the cervix break. (2) I felt them in my lower back; none of the BH contractions were in my back at all.
Unfortunately, the real deal didn't lead to my contractions being closer together or in any kind of pattern.
I have heard that if activity and resting change the contractions that they aren't the real deal.
Mama to a lower elementary school boy, preschool girl, and my miracle baby girl.
Two 10w losses (11/2010 + 8/2011)
I keep trying to remember that, but its becoming so fustrating since I do not remember anything like this with any of my other kids.
I did read yesterday something called Prodromal Labor! Basically what I read its the stage before active labor that happens to women who have multiple children. It can act like active labor and contractions are more painful than BH's. I had never heard of it before yesterday. Anyone every hear of it or experience it?
Had sex last night and thought that's what was happening when they got down to 6 min apart and were very intense. But by 3 am, they had dulled and I was able to sleep. I had never heard of the prodormal labor before yesterday. Just always thought if you were having Contractions you were having either real labor or false labor. Its good to know that I was not going crazy. The contractions have been going on for a week now pretty regularly, just do not progress, so I am guessing that it could be any day, just do not know when. I just need to relax and let my body do the work, but that is really hard for me right now!
It's okay you're anxious to meet that precious miracle! Everything is doing SOMETHING - the contractions might not be making you dilate, but they are helping get baby in position, etc. if you have a...martial aid as someone very wise once calls it, get that out and just orgasm, orgasm, orgasm! The orgasm gets the uterus contracting and before you know it, BAYUM! lol
December 9, 2013
5:20PM 8lb3oz 20.5"
Hospital water birth