Okay so on Thursday 7/16 I had a lot more cramps than normal and a lot more pressure. I went to my sons t ball game and could barley sit through it I was so uncomfortable. Well we came home and got the kids to bed and I started getting strong painful contractions. They were not too close together so I really didnt pay to much attention to them. I tried to go to sleep but I couldnt the pain was so unreal. I got up and tried to lay down on the couch. That didnt help either. So I find myself pacing back and forth with the most painful pain in my back. I knew this was it and I got a little scared. I tried to breath through the pain for about an hour until I broke down and decided I needed to go in. I went upstairs and woke DH @ 145am telling him I needed to go to the hospital. As he was in a deep sleep he tells me No and rolled over and went back to sleep!! I was ready to smack him!! How dare he tell me no!! I put some clothes on and called my mom. I finally got DH fully awake and by that time I was bawling from the pain. I told I had to go and he said okay and I was to call him once I got checked in. My mom got to my house a little after 2 am and we got to the hospital by 230. At this point I could barley walk and was in so much pain. I had to go through admissions even though I was already registered. They got me to my room and as I was getting out of the wheel chair I was doubled over in severe pain. They had one nurse trying to help me breath and another one rubbing my back. They had me get in bed and they checked me I was at a 5 and 100% effaced
No wonder I hurt so bad. They asked if I wanted an Epi and I said yes. They had an IV in me and a whole bag of fluids pushed through me in about 30min. Finally the anesthesiologist came in to do the epi. I was screaming from the pain so they decided to check me before they did the epi and I was already at an 8!!I had only been at the hospital maybe an 1 so I was dialteing fast. I had my mom call DH and tell him he needed to come and fast. I thought he would call my aunt to watch the kids but he didnt. So at about 4am here he comes with both my kids. They were so tired. Once I got my epi things really slowed down for me but I was feeling a heck of a lot better. I labored a few more hours and then they told me that at 8 am they were gonna break my water and then I should be ready to have baby. Well my DH HAD to be at work. He had some very important stuff he had to do. So he left at 7am. I told him I would call after they broke my water. Well at about 830am they came and broke my water and said in a half hour they would be back to check me. So I called DH and told him to be there by 9am. They came in at 9 and I was ready to push the only problem was DH still wasnt there!! So every one is calling him telling him to get there NOW!! I really hadn't planned for my kids to be in the room while I delivered but I had no choice. I didnt want Dhs mom to miss it or my mom either. So they kids sat in a chair up by my head. As I was pushing I could here my daughter Brenna saying push mommy push you can do it. It just made my heart melt. It was hard to push well listening to her saying those things. I started pushing at 906 and at 911 he was born!! After only 5 min of pushing!! And of course DH missed it!! He walked in just as my mom had cut the cord.
So we now have our second handsome little boy we named Kayden Andrew. He weighed in at 6lbs 4.6oz and was 19.5inches long. He has a full head of hair. And his brother and sister just cant get over him.
I did end up having to get stitches. Apperantley my son wasnt ready to let go of me and some how ripped my area around my pee whole. And let me tell you I would have much rather ripped from my vajaja to my butt because it hurts every time I pee!! It is getting better but man it still hurts like an SOB!! We came home the next day and things so far have been good. The kids just wont leave him alone and Im sore but other than that things are good. I also miss my belly. I want to cry because I dont have my baby belly any more but then I look at Kayden and I remember the best gift is here with me finally. Safe and healthy.
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