Getting Pregnant

JordyB's Mommy · #1 November 26th, 2008, 06:01 AM

I'm 13-15dpo, AF is due friday. I feel pregnant, exactly how I felt last time when I kept getting BFN one right after another until week 7! But that time I wasn't trying to get pregnant but when I found out I was super excited, but then I looked back at the previous weeks, I had thought all my symptoms were just signs AF was coming soon so I wasn't thinking and making decisions based on being pregnant because we had been using protection. So I made some stupid choices and I was in a very stressful enviroment with work and the last 2 1/2 months of planning my wedding and putting up with future in laws that were still trying to stop the wedding up until we said I do. So i feel like those were major reasons for me having a m/c. This time around I've been on prenatal vitamins since the end of august when I found I was pregnant the first time and I never came off them, because in the baby books I had read its a good idea to be taking them up to 3 months before you start TTC, so I figured it would only help my body's chances of being able to carry a baby to term. And I watch what I eat and everything. But still no BFP, here's this mornings test using Answer brand with FMU. Maybe I just wont test positive till after 7 weeks again. Anyone else have the same problem, with no being able to get a BFP on a HPT till weeks later?

Misty_X · #2 November 26th, 2008, 06:28 AM

With one of my miscarriages I didn't get a + until later on and I know seeral women who struggled to get early BFPs so you're not alone

I'm so sorry you got a BFN though. Keep taking the prenatals and doing what you're doing - the best thing is to look after yourself as though you were pregnant until you can be certain that you're not. so unless AF arrives just keep on taking good care of yourself, and I hope you'll be showing us a BFP soon!

JordyB's Mommy · #3 November 26th, 2008, 08:00 AM

Thank so much Misty!=] Those are the reassuring words I need to hear, that's the one thing I need help on is keeping positive. When I'm happy I'm healthier. I think I'm going to test again friday morning when AF is due. And then I'll be 15 to 17dpo. If I get a BFN then, then I'll wait till next wednesday to try if still no AF.