Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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April 1st, 2008, 08:58 AM
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Zane & Jude's mama
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I tested yet again this morning......
and.............
BFN!!!!!!!!!!! There was no point to take a pic of something so ugly and depressing.
Now I can't figure out if the BFP was a BFP and I'm having yet another chemical pregnancy/loss or if it was an evap.
I'm soooo very depressed.  I thought we FINALLY made me. You ladies made me excited and happy that you were all happy for me, but I feel bad disappointing you all yet again. I knew it was too good to be true. I really need a miracle. That it was a fluke and I'll a BFP tomorrow and that AF won't show. But my temp dropped and I feel her coming.
Don't think i'll be around much today. this is just heartbreaking.
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April 1st, 2008, 09:04 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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keep in mind every test is diffrent even the same brands at least thats what i thank. so maybe just still to eairly.
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April 1st, 2008, 09:06 AM
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Zane & Jude's mama
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Thanks!
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April 1st, 2008, 09:07 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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 I hope it was just a fluke and tomorrow you get that BFP back!
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April 1st, 2008, 09:07 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh I'm so sorry hunny  I really hoped that this was it for you. Take a few days to your self and get some rest.
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April 1st, 2008, 09:13 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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noooooooooooooo  I just replied in PAL.
I am so sorry  This is heartbreaking!!!! ((HUGS))
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April 1st, 2008, 09:15 AM
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Zane & Jude's mama
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Thank you ladies.
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April 1st, 2008, 09:15 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Nooooooooooooooo! I'm so sorry Lindsey! I hope it was a bad test and you get a blaring BFP tomorrow. If you need to talk, I'm here!
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April 1st, 2008, 09:33 AM
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Zane & Jude's mama
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Thank you Michelle!
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April 1st, 2008, 09:55 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Oh hun, I hope that line comes back for you! It can all depend on the test, concentration of your pee, so you never know. Plus temps can be wacky. I really hope this is it for you, but even if it's not, you haven't disappoined us. We love ya whether you're pg or not, but we of course hope that you are because we all know how much it would mean to you.
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April 1st, 2008, 09:56 AM
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Zane & Jude's mama
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Thank you Shannon!
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April 1st, 2008, 10:03 AM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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Oh no hun i'm so sorry!  did you use a different brand test? It could not be as sensitive
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April 1st, 2008, 10:06 AM
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Zane & Jude's mama
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I used a FRER yesterday. FRER this am with FMU.
Thanks.
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April 1st, 2008, 10:15 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry!! I did look at the pic from yesterday, and it looks a little like an evap to me, as much as I don't want to say it  . I'm just saying that because I've heard that the second line should be the same thickness as the control line. I can't tell the color in the picture though. BUT you are only 10DPO so you still have time to get a beautiful BFP  !! You're in my T&Ps!!
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April 1st, 2008, 10:32 AM
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just me
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 I'm so sorry honey. And don't worry about disappointing us.
I'm with Tatiana. You're still early. Hopefully you'll get something definite in a couple days!!
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April 1st, 2008, 10:34 AM
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Zane & Jude's mama
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thanks
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April 1st, 2008, 10:53 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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yes, try to stay positive that it is still too early, and try again in a few days. Good Luck dear. Hoping to see a BFP!!!
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Proud Mommy to Lukas, Saul (our Angel), Daisy and Elias

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April 1st, 2008, 11:48 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Oh, Lindsey!!!!!!
I'm so sorry you got a - result today!! Like the other ladies have mentioned, it is still early.
Are you going to see your doc, to let them know????
Do not worry about disappointing us!!! We're ALL in this together!!!!
We're here for you, girl!!! No matter what!!
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April 1st, 2008, 11:57 AM
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Zane & Jude's mama
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thanks ladies. (i'm in the process of switching docs....the RE i was seeing was a jerk basically who wouldn't treat me.....and I have a new appt. Monday with a new doc. hoping for answers and or good news soon)
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