sorry i've been mia

mommy jenn · #1 April 3rd, 2008, 09:59 AM

I have just been so down... no ovulation and no period!! this is tearing me to bitz!!! i really cant handle this, it looks like an anov cycle for me but why??? why if i got preg so easily in Jan??? am i going to battle to fall preg now?

i feel like God is punishing me... anyway... im just wishing all of this had never happened, that i was still on the pill and did want to have children so badly...

mom 2 haley & tyler · #2 April 3rd, 2008, 10:23 AM

I'm so sorry you're feeling down.
We all know what it's like and we are here for you. I hope you get a BFP soon!

Eleysia · #3 April 3rd, 2008, 10:23 AM

Let me start with offering you a big hug. Im sorry you are so down right now. It sucks when you can't control your own body, and it sucks even worse when you don't know why/what is going on. I assure you that god is not punishing you. He is not a vengful hurtful person/being. It just might take a little longer than you had hoped for to get your body back on track. Maybe there is something bigger in store for you, and you have to wait a little longer to get it. I hope you feel better soon hun, and know we are here for you. Im glad youre not MIA anymore too

HippyMomOf4 · #4 April 3rd, 2008, 10:42 AM

My dr said you can have very messed up cycles after a m/c, i know my frist cycle are my loss in January, my cycle was 38 days long and i didn't O until CD28, then this last month cycle was 27 days, Oing on CD18. So my cycles still arn't normal again. I hope the get regulated soon.

jademyst13 · #5 April 3rd, 2008, 10:48 AM

Your first cycle after a m/c can be all kinds of crazy. I know it's frustrating, but you have to give your body time to figure itself out. Don't give up hope yet

Celry · #6 April 3rd, 2008, 11:31 AM

I'm on CD28 after a miscarriage with no O in sight. I had a temp dip last week so thought I was Oing, but there was no rise after it

It's frustrating to wait so long. Don't give up. We're here for you.

katiegirl · #7 April 3rd, 2008, 12:12 PM

Jenn, that first month can be very frustrating.

You are still on an emotional roller coaster.
Don't worry your cycles should even themselves out soon.

~*Sam*~ · #8 April 3rd, 2008, 12:29 PM

I so feel for you right now. Getting back on track after a loss is so frustrating. It really can tear you apart emotionally and physically. Just know that we are hear for you and that we are all rooting for you to get back on track and get that BFP, try to stay positive.

Wee3monkeys · #9 April 3rd, 2008, 02:26 PM

What they all said! I'm sorry you are feeling down! I'm sure we can all commiserate! m/c stinks, everything for a while afterwards stinks. Think about it from another perspective as well, your emotions are tied to your physical well-being and vice-versa. Pick something everyday to do that makes you feel better, physically or emotionally, for some reason or another. You'll slowly climb out of the depression, and you're body will feel better and may regulate itself too. I hate to say "trust me," but I do know that this seems to be the way my own mind and body work together.

Plus, this is the best place to be when you're feeling a little down!

The ladies here are sooo supportive! I am kind of shy posting, since I'm new, but I can see just how wonderful and kind you ladies are to each other in every single post. It's wonderful!

babybatax2 · #10 April 3rd, 2008, 04:57 PM

I think we all have these feelings. It is horrible! I miscarried back in August and everyday is still a rollercoaster ride for me. I recently read a book "I never held you" and it is about miscarriage. I think it really helped me.

As for cycles...I know that feeling also. Recently I had a 72 day cycle! I was so upset because I missed my period for no good reason!