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April 3rd, 2008, 07:36 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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by first month, i mean the weeks immediately following your m/c, not your next normal cycle.
my d&c was 2 wks ago, and i'm wondering if i will even o right about now, or will i just get af w/o o-ing.
i don't normally check cm or temp or anything, so i really don't know when i o, or if i will this month.
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April 3rd, 2008, 07:48 PM
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I O'd 12 days after my miscarriage (natural), but that was a late O, or I could have had an early AF because I got AF 7 days later, 10 days before I expected her. I got pregnant again on the cycle after that, but miscarried again.
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April 3rd, 2008, 08:01 PM
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I O'd 31 days after my D&C, 2 weeks later got AF. I think it all depends on how much HCG is in your system. I had very high numbers from the get go, and I had slight m/s for almost 10 days after my D&C.
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April 3rd, 2008, 08:05 PM
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All 3 of my m/c's were "natural" so no d&c but I did O later than usual. You can look at my chart this month. I usually O between day 16 - 18 and I O'd on day 22. Last month it took much longer to O but I was further along.
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April 3rd, 2008, 09:08 PM
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Just peeking in from July DDC.. I OV the same month but a few days late and got pregnant with twins... Lost one early on but still holding the other!!!!
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April 3rd, 2008, 09:25 PM
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Hippy Mom Extraordinaire
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After my first m/c i O CD20 so 20 days after my m/c, my m/c i Jan i didn't O until CD28 so 28 days after. Now i'm Oing around CD18
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April 3rd, 2008, 09:28 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I temped, but my temps did not show a clear ovulation pattern. So I don't think I Oed at all on that cycle. No biggie since we weren't trying yet.
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April 4th, 2008, 04:11 AM
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I did not chart the first month after my miscarriage.
I am assuming I O'd because AF came exactly 28 days after my miscarriage.
I was just to raw emotionally to even think about ovulating or getting pregnant.
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April 4th, 2008, 05:54 AM
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I m/c on Jan 16th and concieved on Feb 1st. I Oed a couple of days late.
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April 4th, 2008, 06:36 AM
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I didn't temp or use OPK's but I'm pretty sure that I O'd this month, about 12 days after I started bleeding. Which is normal time for me. We BD when I had an open cervix and EWCM. So I don't know if I will be getting a period this month (I hope I don't).
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April 4th, 2008, 06:38 AM
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I'm not sure if I o'd or not after my m/c. I really wasn't paying attention at the time. Sorry! I hope it happens for you soon.
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April 4th, 2008, 07:14 AM
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Super Mommy
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i lost my second baby june 13 2005 and found out i was pregnant again july 4 2005!!! Yes i was very surprised but now that baby is a healthy 2 years old!!!
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April 4th, 2008, 09:02 AM
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Linda,
Im just not sure honey. Ill let you know in 2 weeks 
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April 4th, 2008, 09:20 AM
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yes, but my temps didn't really indicate it and my cycle was 54 days. I only know because I had a CD3 ultrsound and it showed a collapsing corpus luteum. The weird thing that happened to me is that I have only ovulated off my right side for the last 3 cycles.
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April 4th, 2008, 09:34 AM
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I O'd normally last cycle, got pregnant, and m/c'd again. I hope I'll O normally again, b/c we're probably going to try right away.
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April 4th, 2008, 10:50 AM
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it's great seeing some ladies get pg right away after m/c. i feel so anxious about it all, like why oh why did i wait until my son was 5 to decide i wanted another? i don't want them to be too far apart cuz then i'm afraid they won't be close as friends. i'm 5 yrs apart from my brother, and growing up i just did not want him around cuz he was a pesky little brother. (oh wait. he still is haha).
and then i think that maybe the d&c has messed w/ my uterus, and it won't work right for a few months... even though the dr said it doesn't.
sorry, i am just being dramatic and anxious and i feel time creeping up (i'm 33! and my kids will then be over 6 yrs apart!) so i'm feeling that anxiety that maybe i'll never have another one.
eleysia- welcome to the 2ww! 
thanks for replying!
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April 4th, 2008, 03:55 PM
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I did not.. I had to take prometrium to get my 1st period.. and I took clomid this month and finally ovulated for the first time (I'm pretty sure) since my D&C in November. But I think I am mostly the exception to the rule.
Hope you can get pregnant again very soon!
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April 4th, 2008, 04:03 PM
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I Oed after my last two on time. I am not sure about after my first because I didn't chart or use OPK's back then.
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