Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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April 3rd, 2008, 09:17 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Let me tell you my DH has done a complete 180 since about a year and a half ago. When we first started this journey, I was talking my DH into trying. Now, he is all over it. Not nearly as crazy as I am, but enough to where it makes me feel happy he is right there with me.....
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April 3rd, 2008, 09:27 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Honestly I think my Dh is neutral. Or at least neutral on wanting a baby. If I told him tomorrow that I no longer wanted a baby, I think he would be fine with stopping TTC. BUT he knows how much I want a baby so he is fine with TTC. He will talk to me about strategy, what days are we going to BD and so forth.
I think it's one of those things that he can't imagine what it will be like to have his own child, but he will love his baby once the baby is born.
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April 3rd, 2008, 09:40 PM
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Location: Virginia
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DH really wants a baby and if it gets him more BD time then heck yeah he's for it 
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April 4th, 2008, 02:24 AM
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DH is on the same page as me, I don't usually have a hard time getting him to BD "one more time", lol. I was just thinking yesterday how great it is to have a DH that does want another baby just as bad as I do, we are hoping for at least two more! YAY!
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Proud Mommy to Lukas, Saul (our Angel), Daisy and Elias
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April 4th, 2008, 02:34 AM
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Location: Canada
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He wants another child, before he's thirty and before I need my hysterectomy, but we were actually trying to avoid it this time around. We avoided baby dancing on the days I thought I was ovulating, but I guess my body didn't care about that. We wanted to stop trying to conceive until after I was done birth control, wait until the summer, but I guess my egg and his sperm had other plans. So, he's on with me, just not as much as me.
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April 4th, 2008, 04:51 AM
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When we are TTC he doesnt really care about all the details.. just wants me to tell him what days we should BD and is fine if i add an extra day...
He doesnt talk about it or anything like that.. but i know he wants more kids, so he's all about doing "his part"...
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April 4th, 2008, 06:41 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: TX
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Mine doesn't really like to talk about it. He knows when I should be o'ing and is happy to bd whenever I say! 
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Mine doesn't really like to talk about it. He knows when I should be o'ing and is happy to bd whenever I say! [/b]
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He wants another one, he just doesn't want all the details leading up to it.
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April 4th, 2008, 06:44 AM
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Mine is very involved! He loves the BDing! But he is so cute after I having actually O'd he starts asking me how my temp is everyday  !
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April 4th, 2008, 07:17 AM
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Location: Rochester, NY
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I think mine is too into it sometimes. He knows everything! One of these cycles I am not going to tell him a thing and see what happens.
He wants a baby as bad as I do and is as crushed as I am every time we lose another one.
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On 1/31 at exactly 16 weeks pregnant Noah came too soon. He was our 7th loss  If you would like to see pictures of my sweet (but tiny) boy they can be viewed at www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahdarrohn they aren't the easiest pitures to look at but I am willing to share them with anyone who would like to see them <3
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April 4th, 2008, 09:03 AM
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He is supportive but in the "tell me when and where" type of way. He was way into it before the m/c and was crushed when that happened. I think he is scared it will happen again so he is trying to not get too into it this time.
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