[*Bobbie*]

I went today to have my bloodwork done. There are various labs to chose from on the sheet. I live in a VERY big town. LOTS of labs around here.....so why the BLEEP do I happen to pick the one my ex-husbands VERY pregnant girlfriend works at??????

UGH

I had not met the girl yet, and honestly didn't really want to. She is the 22 yr old girlfriend who supposedly got pregnant on the pill. He only knew her a couple months and wasn't even serious about the relationship. So all along I have tried to be happy for him, but the feelings of ....why is it so easy for others and not the ones who want it most and have gone through hell to get it are there. So I sit there getting 9 tubes of "please figure out why I can't get pregnant and stay that way ...along with are my eggs old" blood drawn looking at her 22 yr old baby bump. I would have cried, but all I can do is laugh at the irony. She actually is a very nice girl and I do wish her the best...but WHY ME?????


LMAO

Thanks for making it to the end of my rambling....carry on

[Brittanie]

Murphey's law. I'm sorry honey.

[~*Sam*~]

Of course that would happen, RIGHT? That's freakin crazy though. What are the odds, especially if you live in a big city. well good thing you had a goo sense of humor about it all. I love the way you put it about your blood work, thats how I felt about my 14 vials they took from me. Take care,

[Eleysia]

Sheesh talk about murphy's law for sure. Bobbie I know i mentioned it before but you amaze me. You just are always so positive. I wish i could even be half as good about it as you are. Im glad you are here to help poeple like me that arent as lucky when it comes to forgiveness and awsome personality traits. You rock girlie I hope you get some answers soon from the bloodwork!!!

[mom 2 haley & tyler]

I can't believe that! How totally uncomfortable. Did she know who you were? I can't wait until you get those results back next week. You amaze me, too. You have such strength and always a positive outlook.

[*Bobbie*]

AWW thanks girls

Yeah she was the one who figured out who I was. I handed her my lab slip, she took one look at the name and said "You're Bobbie? I'm Heather". It actually took me a minute to *get it*. I am slow sometimes! I said "Oh your Dave's girlfriend?" (My ex's name is Dave too....bet most of you didn't know that LOL)

<sigh> strange day! Now I hope the bloodwork comes back good.

[mom 2 haley & tyler]

Well at least you don't have to worry about calling out the wrong name, right? LMAO

[Melanie0507]

What are the chances!!! How crazy

Hope the bloodwork gives you some answers, though. Then, it will all be worth it!

[Frangipani]

Bobbie, that is just crazy. It sounds like you handled it really well though (better than I think I would have!)

[*Bobbie*]

Well at least you don't have to worry about calling out the wrong name, right? LMAO[/b]

HEHE.... yeah but I was never very *vocal* LMAO

What are the chances!!! How crazy

Hope the bloodwork gives you some answers, though. Then, it will all be worth it![/b]

I know..right? My luck! I have a feeling the bloodwook will be good. Then Clomid here I come! Or IUI that would even be better

Bobbie, that is just crazy. It sounds like you handled it really well though (better than I think I would have!)[/b]

Thanks... after I got over the initial shock of my bad luck. I was okay. I even said "good luck" on the way out..... and meant it. Mainly because she is now stuck with my ex for the rest of her life he isn't the easiest person to live with!

[babyblue]

Talk about a kick in the gutt... seriously, what are the odds??? Girl, you handled it so well though!!

I am excited about your bloodwork and getting this show on the road. Maybe you will be taking clomid with me next month and we can both end up with twins or something!!!

[*Bobbie*]

That would be sooo cool!

I really want two more kids...so two at once would be great!

I think me being a twin...and being old...probably increases the chances of them. Bring it on

[babyblue]

That would be sooo cool!

I really want two more kids...so two at once would be great!

I think me being a twin...and being old...probably increases the chances of them. Bring it on [/b]

oh I forgot you were a twin!! No doubt- that would be so awesome!! I am not telling DH, but I am secretly wishing for twin girls to pay him back for his childhood. PLus his mom had 2 boys, and we have a boy, and Kenny's brother has 1 boy and another one on the way... so she is DYING to get a girl in this family. The more the merrier I say!!!

[*Bobbie*]

What happened in his childhood?

My family has lots of boys and girls...so it wouldn't matter to me

[katiegirl]

That is crazy the you would pick the ONE lab with her.

That sounds like something that would happen to me.

[*Bobbie*]

I know. It's just my luck. I am kinda glad though because at least now I met her and her belly and don't have to worry about how it will make me feel

[Pound]

i'm actually lol after reading your post, but i know if it was me, i'd have been out of there so fast! ugh. but you are awesome for having such a sense of humor about it.

[*Bobbie*]

I am still laughing about it...and silly me even found some cute shoes for the baby at work today that I just have to buy. I can't belive I am buying stuff for my ex-husbands baby! UGH

[Pound]

you're a better person than i am!!!!

[victorialv]

You have got to be kidding me Bobbie!!!! I just can't believe the odds. I ditto pound!!

If it were me, I would be not very happy, and maybe even depressed. I really admire your courage and positive outlook. You are a role model to us all!!