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April 6th, 2008, 03:10 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Okinawa, Japan
Posts: 7,628
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I've kept up to date with my old DDC all along since we lost our bean, and it's never been too painful...but with all the babies suddenly being born into this world, it's turning excruciatingly painful to visit there  Today marks the end of my visits to May DDC...
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April 6th, 2008, 03:29 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 4,567
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I know the feeling. I was in the March DDC, and basically all of them have had their babies, it just reminds me what I should have had.
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April 6th, 2008, 03:39 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 2,414
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Going back to your DDC is very hard. The last time I went was enough for me. It's entirely too painful to see all their pics of their bellys getting bigger and them sharing their stories of the sex of the baby. Steer clear for a while maybe, that's what I've decided to do. take care and
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Loving wife to Paul
Proud Mommy to Lukas, Saul (our Angel), Daisy and Elias

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April 6th, 2008, 03:55 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 10,854
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((hugs)) I know it's hard, I had to stop visiting mine (April DDC) . Especially now that everyone is having their babies.
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April 6th, 2008, 04:09 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Oregon
Posts: 4,315
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oh i totally hear you. I lurk from time to time in my old ddc (June) and it's harder and harder. I think I'm done checking in, especially since the time is quickley approaching for everyone to start having their babies. It's just too painful.
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April 6th, 2008, 05:05 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Colorado
Posts: 4,478
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I don't visit my old ddc's either. I keep thinking that Aspen should have been born in May my belly should be big and round by now. *sigh*
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April 6th, 2008, 09:27 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 2,926
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Hi Amylizz, I remember you. We were in the May DDC together. I have checked in here and there, but also find it very painful so my stops are brief and they were usually just to check on Astrid. I am sorry you are going through that. You should hang out here more often, the girls are great and we all are a bit silly.
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April 7th, 2008, 08:49 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Florida
Posts: 9,159
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I still chack in on both of mine, especially December, b/c my good friend IRL is in there, and I like to stalk her. But once they're farther along, I'll probably stop.
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Cheryl, mama to Noah Paul born 12/26/09, wife to wonderful hubby Rob I am proudly a homebirthing, excluively breastfeeding from the tap, constantly babywearing, bed sharing, attached mama to a high needs baby. He is a part time diaper-free baby!
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April 7th, 2008, 09:10 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bremerton, Wa
Posts: 4,400
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I definatly know how it feels not to want to check your old DDC. I had to take a break from mine. Espically when I startedto have feelings of anger towards the girls who still had their babies. I still check in from day to day, but it is only to see how a couple girls are doing. It is a little easier for me though since I didn't really feel like part of the family in mine, so I'm ok with waiting for a new DDC espically one with some of these wonderful women in it
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April 7th, 2008, 09:22 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: TX
Posts: 8,212
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I understand completely. My baby would've been born April 2. I don't even lurk in the ddc. I just stick to here.
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