[Banned-ZoesMom]

Now, I do have some questionable language, and I don't usually swear unless I'm angry or stressed out, so I apologize for the language. I think I'm just going to stay away from there from now on. Can you believe how people are treating me and this pregnancy? On another response, the girl, Mandy, said she had hopes for the pregnancy: Who KNOWS with her? I know what I want to happen... but I won't say it. It'll come out wrong. lol Which translates to me into something like "I hope she loses the baby so it'll teach her a lesson"

Anyway..should I stay away?

http://members7.boardhost.com/master...207670454.html

[Eleysia]

Stay away from them!!!! Dont even go back, that is cruel and redicclus (spelling). Dont even give it a second thought. that is a horrible plzce, you dont need that.

[Danica]

Wow. My jaw dropped. Don't waste your time or energy respondig anymore. I always tell myself with people like that "it take a lot of energy to be so angry, must be a sad life" Part of one of the pregnency prayers I say every day has a part in it that says "I condemn every tongue that has risen against me and my baby in accordance with your word". I would say that and then never go back.

:dothugs: You know we only wish the best for your Brandi.

[Madison.N.Hailey'sMom]

Oh Brandi reading all the comments really P*SSED me off. I'm writing something to those girls and its not geared torwards you at all. Dont let anyone take the joy you are having about being pg away from you. Just because it wasnt planned doesnt mean it wasnt a blessing. Lots of woman get pg when it wasnt planned and it doesnt change how you feel about the baby. I wouldnt even bother dealing with those woman over there and just stay here where you have woman that support you in everything and you can openly say what you are feeling. We all love you here that you are going through that there.

[Banned-ZoesMom]

Thanks Ladies!!

My daughter was unplanned too, but we love her so much and there's nothing we can do to change that. Despite our problems, our daughter and this baby bring so much joy and happiness into our lives. This is going to be one happy, healthy pregnancy no matter what people say about it. It's like they want me to admit this pregnancy is a mistake. I'm not apologizing..this pregnancy and this baby are no mistakes. With 2 consecutive losses and rapidly progressing endometriosis, this pregnancy and baby are blessings and miracles, and I'll never apologize for that.

Oh, about the board I was talking about with supportive and happy people, I was referring to here.

Oh, and thanks Angela!!

[Wee3monkeys]

What the ladies above said!! Don't waste your time and energy on people like that!!! It's absolutely not worth it! Put it out of your mind, and don't go back. Easier said than done, huh, because we always want to defend ourselves, but those ladies are not worth the time.

Just be happy for yourself, and know that everyone here is thrilled for you too!!!!

[Banned-ZoesMom]

Angela..it's funny now. They're trying to figure out who you are and where you're from. They think you're me, lol. Let them think you're me though. I don't want to cause you any trouble, nor do I want them at this board.

[Madison.N.Hailey'sMom]

Its fine. I still cant wrap my head around how people can treat another person this way. I had a problem with someone in my life that I posted about and I havent responded to her but I felt this needed a responce. It doesnt show any responses to what I wrote. I'm curious to see what they have to say now. I'm evil I know but got to love those hormones

ETA: Here's the post I was talking about. http://www.justmommies.com/boards/index.ph...owtopic=1043380

[Wee3monkeys]

Its fine. I still cant wrap my head around how people can treat another person this way. I had a problem with someone in my life that I posted about and I havent responded to her but I felt this needed a responce. It doesnt show any responses to what I wrote. I'm curious to see what they have to say now. I'm evil I know but got to love those hormones

ETA: Here's the post I was talking about. http://www.justmommies.com/boards/index.ph...owtopic=1043380[/b]

Angela, I saw this post the other day, and thought the same thing, even though I didn't say it at the time. But..... forget her. Whatever, with women who are like that. There's no excuse for it, and it is completely rude and uncalled for. Evidently her mother didn't teach her that if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all. As to the switching to maternity clothes, they're sooooo much more comfortable, who cares about the pride of not doing it right away (just so you can say you didn't). Ughhh, I can't stand people like that, that is NOT friendship.

As for me, I was out-growing my clothes around 5-6 wks last time. I thought I was being ridiculous, and I think everyone IRL that knew me thought so too. But I didn't care, I'd rather be comfy than care. Plus, it turned out I had little twinnies in there, so I had an even better excuse (extra bloat, or something, I don't know).

Anyway, I digress, but the point was..... those kind of people are not worth your energy.

[mom 2 haley & tyler]

Brandi, I would stay away from those people. You don't need negative people in your life. You have a beautiful daughter, are fixing to get married, and are pg (with a very sticky bean). You just stay over here with us. We will never treat you like that.

Good for you, Angie! I read what you wrote, too.

[Banned-ZoesMom]

I thought they were my friends, but I guess not. Oh well, who needs friends like them anyway. Friends wouldn't harass me for becoming pregnant or call me a liar for becoming pregnant when I was trying to avoid right now. Sometimes things like late ovulation happen and there's no way to control that. They said I should be able to tell when my body is ovulating. I don't get the apins anymore and I based my date of ovulation at the date right in the middle of my cycle, but obviously, I didn't ovulate then because I didn't baby dance then, but baby danced later and still got pregnant!! Even my doctor's nurse when I called about my levels yesterday she goes "They're at 17, which is a little low, but it probably means you ovulated late and that could definitely be it, since you just had a recent miscarriage and a surgery." I'm so excited though, regardless. Can't wait to hold Pebble in December.

[..Jessica..]

Some people just need to get a REAL life, Brandi!!! Ugh!!! Slap them allll!!!

[HippyMomOf4]

I would def stay away from those girl! They are just rude and plain out b******

[mommy jenn]

brandi luv, why are you doing this to yourself my luv!! we should all go on there with you and blast them all from a dizzy hieght!! take over the place and have it for ourselves!!! mwuuhaaahaha!! *evil laugh*

i am fuming about this!! i get it too!!

oh brandi that place is terrible!! please dont go back hun!! stay here with us!! rather come talk to use ladies in the FF chat rooms, its nice there... there are a few ######y people but not like that!! how scary!!!

[mommy jenn]

i left a comment!! i am FUMING FUMING MAD!! I COULD SPIT SNAKES!!!

[Banned-ZoesMom]

There's one girl on there who came out and apologized and said she hopes this one sticks. I won't mention who for her sake. She's never really been very mean to me. She's been through a loss too and had the exact same thing happen from the exact same girls, so she sympathizes.

[Lv2Mommy]

Wow - I can't believe people can be so incredibly rude! Stay away from that awful board - the JM ladies would never be so awful!

[Banned-ZoesMom]

I know. That's why I love you all

[amandakay29]

I went to the board and read through the comments. I read the "Mandy" girls response and I would of taken it the same way you did. I'm sorry those people were so rude and mean to you. I've only experienced this recently and don't understand what makes people act that way. I'm really sorry....don't go back. I really believe in karma...and the what you put out in the world you get back ten fold thing, they will eventually get their's

[cam & sami's mom]

I cannot believe how they treated you! I'd never go back.