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April 11th, 2008, 12:31 PM
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Well ladies, DH and I have been discussing it a lot lately and we have finally decided that we are not going to try for #3.

We are very happy with the two children that we have and love that we are able to provide for them without any strain.
I know that a third would strain us financially.
That is not the only reason.
I think that one of many reasons I have been TTC these past few months is because of our miscarriage in November.
It may sound rediculous but I didn't want to end on a bad note.

I have realized that it wasn't a bad note, I will alway love the child that was inside of me for over 9 weeks and no one can take that away nor can he be replaced.

I have also decided to finally name my angel baby

Aidan James


To all you ladies, I wish you the best and pray that one day you will all have a baby to hold of your own.
Each and every one of you deserves it and God will bring you that joy soon.

I am sure I will be back to lurk from time to time and congratulate each of you as you get your


God Bless You!!!
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April 11th, 2008, 12:33 PM
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It must have been a difficult choice for you to make...

Best of Luck to you and your family!
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April 11th, 2008, 12:34 PM
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Oh Katie! I do hope you'll pop in from time to time to let us know how you are doing. I'm glad you both came to an agreement. The name is beautiful!!! You take care of yourself and enjoy those beautiful children of yours! (and dh) I wish you all the best. God bless you, too!
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April 11th, 2008, 01:21 PM
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oh Katie, God Bless you, you have a wonderful out look on things!! i really wish you and your family all the best and i hope you keep poping in to say hi!! thank you for the kind wishes for our bfps!!! much love
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April 11th, 2008, 02:24 PM
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Katie, Im glad that you two can finally put your aching hearts at ease. Please know you are always welcomed into this forum and will be greatly missed if you dont stop by every once in a while. Thank you for the well wishing, and I hope nothing but the best for you and your beautiful family.
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April 11th, 2008, 03:45 PM
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I'm glad you can find a little bit of peace. Please don't be a stranger!
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April 11th, 2008, 07:04 PM
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I definitely understand and respect your decision, Katie, but please know you will truly be missed!!

Please stop by once in a while, especially with cute pics of the kiddos
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April 11th, 2008, 07:06 PM
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What a beautiful name for your little boy. I'm glad you are at peace with the situation.

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April 11th, 2008, 11:50 PM
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I know it must have been a hard decision. I'm glad you named your angel, and it is such a lovely name. I wish you the happiest life and do hope that you still come around to see us!
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April 12th, 2008, 06:27 AM
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Katie, what a great name you have chosen for your little one. I love it.

I am going to truly miss you here. I am glad you've found peace though and are able to focus on the blessings in life that are already with you. Please stop in every once in a while if you have a chance. I'd love to hear from you.

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April 12th, 2008, 09:28 AM
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Katie !!

please do not be a stranger !!

you know I will always wish the best for you !!!

~HUGS~
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April 12th, 2008, 06:29 PM
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Good Luck to you and your family! I love the name you chose for your angel baby! Take Care and
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April 12th, 2008, 08:14 PM
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best of luck to you. Enjoy your family!
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