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April 13th, 2008, 11:17 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
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Ok so, everyone in this house knows that DH and I will be stopping BCP in 4 cycles, to begin CHARTING!!!  DH and I are excited, well I am!  He is a little worried still, says he doesn't want us to get into "trouble" and not be able to help ourselves. Trouble?! 
Anyway, my sister tells me tonight that she is planning to ask our family doctor for Fertility advice when she is in with him in May. Let me just say that my sister does NOT live with her fiance, and the both times she has gotten pregnant and m/c he took off! Told her he needed space! 
And she wants to have this guy's baby?!??!?! Are you kidding me?!!? So I told her tonight, weigh the pros and cons of having a child in HER situation. All she can say is "I'm getting older and want a child, that's it". No, that's NOT it! Children are NOT cheap! She has no credit, creditors are calling here every single day! Sending her letters, etc. She doesn't have any sort of savings, his family absolutely hates her. She doesn't understand that a child is a life long commitment! I KNOW that I'm only 21 (in two days! ) But crap, you'd think I was the older child! I'm married, granted we live with my parents, but we pay our way here, nothing is free OR handed to us!!!
I'm just soooo upset and annoyed with her!! She claims that they are getting their own place in September, YEAH FRIGGEN RIGHT! He can't be away from his mom for 2 seconds. I swear he wasn't weaned until he was 10!
Ok...my vent is over!!!
I hope everyone had a great weekend!!!!
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April 13th, 2008, 11:30 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2007
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Ugh Jessica, that would be frustrating!!! Do you mind if I ask how old she is? I can't believe you're only 21, you certainly don't come across that young. Not that it is that young, but I am 33, so I always thought you were closer to my age. Well, I hope that things turn out for the best. Maybe she will turn herself around and become more responsible if she gets pg? Maybe? 
Well, I can't wait for you guys - how exciting! It will be here before you know it!! 
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April 13th, 2008, 11:35 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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yayy our jessica is back lol j/k
sry she is going threw this and i hope she is able to work it all out b4 she goes and actually does this.
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April 14th, 2008, 05:59 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Colorado
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Hi Jessica!
First off, OMG YAY, 4 months will be here before you know it. I can't wait to stalk your chart LOL
Sorry about your sis. It definately is concerning if the dude runs out on her every time she gets pregnant. Also that she doesn't have any money. I hope that all she does is talk to the doc to get the info but not go through will actively ttc until she and df are both emotionally and financially ready.
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April 14th, 2008, 07:30 AM
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formerly mommy2haley17
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Join Date: Aug 2007
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Yea for only 4 more cycles. Sorry about your sister. Hopefully she'll think it through and won't go through with it. G/L to you, though!!!
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April 14th, 2008, 09:29 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Canada
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My sister is 30 years old.
Anyway, yeah, I hope she does just talk to the doc about options and NOT the way she's been talking about. She drives me insane! I couldn't imagine having her kids here too!
I can't wait to being temping!!! I was suppose to go out today and get a digital thingie, but I felt like crap in the morning so I didn't go with my parents. I'll have one by next week though!!!
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April 14th, 2008, 09:54 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Bremerton, Wa
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Yay Im happy you only have 4 short months left!!! That time will fly by.
I wouldnt stress about your sister. The way I see it is everything happens for a reason. DH's mom did the whole "i want a baby because im getting older, and i dont care how i get one" and she struggled, and left her guy, and married some guy who is DH's stpedad, but i think in the long run she made the best decision. I doubt that your family will let your sis fall on her face, but maybe this is meant for her. I really hope everything turns out well though.
Cant wait to see your  in a couple months!!!!
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April 14th, 2008, 10:08 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
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Sisters...can't live with them...can't live without them...
Sorry you are having to be the big sister in the situation...maybe she should try getting her and DH into counseling to see why it is he bails everytime...and to make sure she is really ready for a baby...
As for you...4 months will FLY by!!
GL and can't wait to follow your journey!
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