[Brittney06]

ok let me show how my af usually goes 1st day spotting 2-5th day HEAVY 6th day spotting and then i am done this is my first cycle after my m/c (its been like 6 weeks) so i figured it would be really bad, this is what happened 1st day spotting 2nd day medium 3rd morning spotting 3rd day in the evening NOTHING 4th day brown spotting occasionaly other than that NOTHING grrrrrrr i still feel yucky and miserable and just want this to be a full fledged period and feel better so i can start again what the heck is going on with me!

[Melanie0507]

I hate to say this because I am sure this isn't what you want to hear, but unfortunately, after a m/c, anything goes It may take a couple cycles for you to get back to *normal* or you may now have a new normal. I hope you feel better soon...

[Brittney06]

thanks i know anything goes i just get myself all worked up sometimes and need to hear it from someone else and i kinda drive the dh crazy once in awhile so i come and vent to you all i did mind if it stays like this i kinda enjoy the shorter period just wish it would have been a little heavier so i felt better, oh well though and who knows tomorow i might be having it heavy lol its hard telling these days!

[..Jessica..]

To be all honest with you, I think my AF is only NOW getting back to normal and it's been 10 months.

I hate it!!!

[Pound]

i'm still waiting for my first af since m/c, so i can't say what mine is gonna be like, but maybe your body is still adjusting. like the others said, it could take a few months, which really sucks to think about cuz if you're like me, i want it to be regular NOW so i can effectively ttc! darnit!
who knows, maybe your body is just changing to a new lighter cycle.

[mommy jenn]

yeah im waiting for mine to, i had spotting yesturday and the day before and nothing today... could that have been my period?? doubtful but ilike you ladies say... anything goes!!

i may have ovulated a few days ago but i dont know if i did my post O temps are soooo low and i really do think af is just around the corner... im glad to see that i managed to get into a LPhase 7dpo is pretty good. i didnt think it would go this far... anyway whatever happens happens i guess theres nothing i can do

[Eleysia]

Grr how annoying. Im sorry your cycle is funky. I wont be much help, I had no signs of AF that were my typical "hey here comes the witch" but then she came on strong. I had the heaviest period of my life for the first few days. I swear I thought I was having an early loss, it was that bad.

I hope you get some sort of reassurence, and that this next cycle is a bit more normal for ya.

[Brittney06]

thank you ladies i really appreciate all the support! it helps knowing that other people have been there, sorry it took me so long to post back, its been crazy around here. I hope everyone gets normal again soon so we can all get our BFP'S!

[mommy jenn]

LOVE you know what, i have never seen bfps happen so fast as it does in this place ttcal, everyday there is a new one... so we will all hopefully SOOOON get our bfps im positive about that!!!

[jennntj13]

I'm sorry that your cycle is being a PITA... I'd get an OPK for this month if you don't have one already...

[Pitridge]

I'm having the same problem with my cycles. My first cycle after the m/c , the worse cramps ever, but it started as spotting for a day, heavy for a couple of days, then light then a bit of spotting-all in about a week-. Right now I'm on my second af since the miscarriage and I had no af symptoms at all, almost no cramps-which it's not normal for me-I was suppose to get it on the 6th, but did not start spotting until the 8, I spotted for about 3-4 days and then i got my period, tomorrow it will be a week-it has never lasted this long-. I think my second af has been weird because I got poison Oak and I was on Steroids for 9 days-finished today!

You are not alone, and I'm glad that I'm not the only one going throught this...I been driving myself crazy with this stuff

[*Bobbie*]

With my 4w loss, AF was the same as what you are dealing with. The second AF after that loss was HORRIBLE though. I have never had an AF that bad in my life.

So I guess what I am saying is who the heck knows

I think it's bad enough we have to experience a loss. Then our bodies go wacky! GRRR

[Brittney06]

oh life cracks me up sometimes who knew your body could do such crazy things! i had nothing for like two days and now i am spotting again so i give up on even trying to figure it out i will just temp and do my opk's and hope i ovulate okay. Oh but on a good note jenny predicted i would conceive this month and she pratically mentioned the 25th as my conception day which should be the exact day i will ovulate! PRAYING SHE IS RIGHT anyways praying for all your bfps and sending some babydust!

[Eleysia]

WooHoo!!!! Thank god for geat predictions. I hope she is right that this is your month!!! KUP!!!! (mine was for June/boy with Cherri, and im thinking that is gonna be true. not that i want to wait another month tho)

[Brittney06]

just think of it this way a month is better than a year and you know its not gonna be to long away so thats less stress i think thats why this dang prediction things are right sometimes cuz we get an idea and stop stressing and so it just naturally happens, i don't care how it happens as long as it happens and i will be so excited when we get to see those bfps!

[Eleysia]

I absolutly agree. At least it is sooner tha later. Im still convinced that with enough coaching...my girlie parts will get the hint that this is my month too!! lmao.

[Brittney06]

girl i don't blame you i would still be doing it to!